So Im a 30 year old guy and I have a young half brother
He has been living with me since he got married in December because my mother and he had falling out due to the fact he got married so young (he diao kia)
I’m not gonna sugar coat it if I knew than what I know now I wouldn’t have let them move in Both him and his wife are 19 are the worst house guest I’ve ever had
I say guest because they’re meant to be looking for work and a place of their own. I’ve made it clear from the get go it was temporary because I’ve 4 children myself and my wife works from home
Since they have moved in they have complained about how loud mornings are and my cooking (I do all the cooking). They’re messy and never pick up after themselves even moaned to my wife about never doing THEIR laundry nor making my brother’s wife snacks during the day
They think me and my wife are their personal help/drivers then try and guilt us when we tell them “no” to 4 am McDonald’s runs or my brother’s wife’s rude comments but “hehe we are too young to know better”
It all came to a head this week when all our children were at home. I couldn’t get the day off so unfortunately, my wife had to deal with 6 children while trying to work
My bother and his wife demanded they all stay in one room and we get them taken out so there are no germs near their food. When my wife told them they should cook for once because she is extremely busy they filled out calling her a heartless B for making a 5-month pregnant woman cook for 8 people and my brother clean while he was trying to sort out “business”
It got to the point of them screaming at my wife and my kids crying my wife had an anxiety attack
I rushed home when I got a sos text but my brother was waiting at the door crying about “not being our slave” and how his pregnant wife is starving
When I got to my wife’s office and she explained everything I saw red, I told them they had 30 days to get out of my house and it was time they faced the real world
They both tried to argue with me explaining none of them can drive and my brother still hasn’t got a job I said I didn’t care. My brother’s wife said that they’d end up homeless and if anything happened to my niece it was all my fault I told her basically “I don’t give a damn even if your wife give birth in the longkang” and she started crying calling me a heartless Ahole
I explained my situation to my sister and she called me a jerk for being so heartless to two teenagers but I asked her when she was letting them Move-in she hung up
I’ve had multiple social media posts made about me and anger phone calls from since than from my sisters husband and my brothers friends.
Am I wrong?