The reason my sister has my house keys in the first place is that sometimes she has to use my home office for work. At her place, wifi is very slow plus she’s got 5 kids who bother her nonstop while she works. It didn’t bother me so I said yeah. Sometimes I leave the house so that’s why I gave her the key. But let me know ahead of time if she’s coming.
So my ex and I are still in the middle of a divorce. We separated 5 months ago and we have an 11-month-old son. Right now I have full custody of him. My sister is close friends with her, she’s also one of the people completely against me divorcing even after telling them I was never in love with my ex and everyone pushed me to marry her because she got pregnant.
This brings me to a week ago. My son’s out at the park with his sitter and she was taking him along while she does other errands so they wouldn’t be back for a while. A friend I’ve been seeing since December comes over and we’re getting into it on the couch. Sister shows up unannounced, catches us and leaves. But then not even a half-hour later I’m getting dozens of calls/texts from my ex because my sister went and told her what she saw.
My sister’s defence was ex needed to know so she can talk to me (still under the hope i can be convinced to take her back) about not seeing anyone. I’m mad because it’s neither her business or my ex’s who I sleep with. Now my ex won’t leave me alone. She’s showing up at my place demanding to know if anyone else is here and just causing so many problems now.
Of course, this is all my ex’s actions but if my sister hadn’t told her anything this wouldn’t be happening. My sister thought she was firmly in the right for telling her so she knows someone else is “trying to steal her husband away” some bull*** like that. The argument made me so mad I took her keys then and told her if she needs to work in my home office she’s going to have to knock on the door and wait till I answer because she’s not coming in here again on her own.
Well since it affects her job and all I’m not sure, with her being able to come and go it made her workflow a lot smoother. Now she’s mad because sometimes I’m not home which means she can’t do her work at my office anymore. And it’s there are too many issues, my sister thinks I’m being a huge jerk for overreacting this much when it means her job.