My brother excluded my husband from his wedding because he’s in a wheelchair. I decided to not go.
My husband (30) got into an accident that caused him to become wheelchairbound 2 years ago, I’m his caregiver and it is all hard as it is.
My brother is getting married soon, he sent me an invite but excluded my husband implying it’s because he’s in a wheelchair.
My brother explained that he didn’t want for me or my husband to “suffer” and suggested that I leave him at home and come alone.
I had a fight not just with my brother, but my family as well after I said I wasn’t going to attend the wedding because my husband was excluded and for what?
he didn’t do anything to anyone, he’s struggling and doesn’t need them shunning him for something he has control over.
I made my mind to skip my brother’s wedding which caused a problem because he’s my oldest and only sibling and be there was a must.
My mom, dad and others are pressuring me to go and said my husband was being dramatic for not letting me go enjoy myself a bit, but my husband didn’t stop me and this was my decision.
I got called unsupportive and petty for refusing to attend now.
This might ruin my relationship with my family and I might be letting my emotions get in the way, but I’m just so mad and hurt right now.