I’ve been seeing this guy for 8,9 months. Things seemed well till I found out he has an estranged wife.
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His wife is not in the country for the last 5 years. She’s a foreigner and has went back to her home country. He said she won’t be returning.
They didn’t get a divorce and have no kids. He told me things are complicated but their love is definitely over and he needs time to sort this out.
I’m so confused by the news. Why do some men like to start another relationship when they haven’t even ended the previous one properly?
He asked me to accompany him to her hometown so he can sort some issues out with her. Also to prove to me it’s over.
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I don’t think I want to meet this person at all, let alone waste my annual leave for this matter.
Netizens’ comments
- Leave him until he shows you his divorce papers.Why should you accompany him to meet her. Crap, he should show you he is man enough to end things on his own before getting back with you.BTW, it’s a BS story to keep saying he need more time. He doesn’t need more time, he need more courage.
- NOT WORTH THE ANNUAL LEAVE
- Men have needs. If a man lied about his relationship status, ask yourself if that is a man you want to waste your time on? Honestly, men who lied about a divorce or previous relationships is not there to protect you, these are broken men who just needs to fill their needs and you were conveniently there. Be wise my dear. Do not get entangled with a married man, whether they are together or not. It will bring you a lot of trouble. You are the backup plan and when a man puts you in that spot. You will be surprised that he will do to you what he did to the wife. Divorced men go through divorce more than once. Do not ever think that you can change these kinds of men.