I was having a conversation with a friend and she told me she’d never be with a guy who earns less that 4.5k a month. No ifs, ands or buts. Funny, because she’s jobless but insanely beautiful so she’s never had a problem finding someone who hits that criteria.
But it got me thinking about what are some of my dealbreakers. I’ll be basic and say height is a huge thing for me (don’t hate me, short kings). I’m 1.7m tall so I’d prefer someone at least a few cm taller than me. You don’t have to be 2m tall basketball player, just a good height for me to wear heels and not feel like I’m King Kong holding my man captive.
Another thing is not wanting kids. I personally want to have kids in the future, so if he says he’s not into that, I’d respectfully leave. I really don’t believe in “changing” someone when you’re in a relationship with them. If their thoughts and opinions on different matters don’t align with yours, I’d rather leave than change them.
I know people value different things in life. I’m just curious to know what your absolute dealbreakers are!
Here are what netizens think:
Absolute absolute absolute? Violence. I can’t say much things are absolute deal breakers. I would like to say I will never stay with a cheater but in reality many people do, even those who say they will never! I guess it’s never say never until it happens to you. But I want to tell myself never ever EVER stay with someone who lays a hand. I’m a small woman. If I ever condone a slap or a shove, that might be how My life ends.
Someone who wants me to earn at least 4.5k but is jobless. Doesn’t matter if she is beautiful.
Cheaters. People who always take but never give back, people who blame you for everything, even when the root cause of the problem is themselves, & people who can’t apologise.