My girlfriend and I had been together for two years and were living together for one of them.
We had a great relationship and were very happy together.
One month ago, she had to go away for work for a month. We talked and texted every day and everything was fine.
But then, last week, after she had been away for a month, I noticed something strange. When she came back, I noticed that her down there was “looser” than when she left.
At first, I didn’t think too much of it, but then it kept nagging at me. I knew something was wrong and I had to find out what was going on.
I decided to confront her about it, but when I did she denied it and said that it was just something that happened over time. I didn’t believe her and I knew something was going on.
I started snooping around and eventually got ahold of her phone. I looked through her text messages and found out that she had been seeing someone else while she was away.
I was devastated. I couldn’t believe that she had cheated on me, especially after all of the time we had spent together. I was angry and hurt and I just wanted to get away from her.
But then I also realized that this was something that could happen to anyone. I knew that she was under a lot of pressure and stress while she was away and that she was probably feeling lonely.
So instead of getting mad at her, I decided to talk to her about it. We talked for a long time and eventually she opened up to me and told me the truth.
Turns out, she had been seeing someone else while she was away and that was why her down there had become “looser”. She was sorry and she promised that it would never happen again.
We talked it out and eventually, I forgave her. We decided to move forward and try to make our relationship work.
It’s been a few weeks and quickly realise that I unable to forgive her as it kept bugging me.
She just feels very dirty to me now.