Everyone knew that my husband was having an affair but no one told me
Advertisements
My husband has been having an affair with a woman he works with. My in-laws, his brothers and their wives, some of our neighbours and my friends and some of his colleagues all knew.
It was going on for more than a year. No one told me and I feel like the fool that everyone made fun of behind her back.
I don’t understand why not one person thought to tell me that my husband of almost 25 years was having an affair. I’m hiring a divorce lawyer tomorrow.
I don’t even know who I can trust now since almost everyone I know kept this secret.
Advertisements
Netizens’ comments
- I’ve seen this. I found out a friend of a friend was cheating, I asked the group if they knew and they all did. Asked if they said anything and they all said it wasn’t their place. But you know what else, when asked if they would want to be told they all said yes.
- I had the same situation with my friend group. I told my friend that her bf was cheating with more than one other girl and they had a fight, made up after he got her name tattooed on his chest, then promptly kicked me out of the friend group. I’m better off without scummy friends like them! (He went on to continue cheating on her and stealing money from her, they got engaged when he got caught again, then they eventually broke up when she started cheating on him. Seriously effed up relationship.)
- Even YOUR friends knew about it? That’s horrendous! I wouldn’t be calling them friends any more.
- Cut anyone out who knew and didn’t tell you. It will suck to lose so many people you once thought you could trust at once, but it will hurt just as bad when you divorce and they say things like ‘I want to stay neutral, I care about both of you’. TF they do, or they’d have told you in the beginning.