As a male, what can you do if a drunk female friend touches you inappropriately?
I don’t feel comfortable telling this to anyone so I’ll just anonymously say it here and leave out most of the details.
A few months back I was in a chalet with a group of friends and one female friend seemed to be particularly drunk. At one point she was touching me at various places that I was not comfortable with (chest and groin area).
Part of me thinks that it’s not intentional and she doesn’t realise what she was doing since she was drunk. But the other part of me thinks that it could be her using her “drunkardness” as an excuse?
But either way even if it was intentional, I don’t think there’s much you can do as a guy? Go the police? They might be laughing me out of the police post. Confide in my friends about it? They might just be teasing me about it.
Though there might be a possibility that I am just overreacting even though I’m still affected by the incident.
Netizens’ comments
- Make a police report immediately. This comment section smh. Imagine if the roles were reversed. Ppl here would be slamming the guy. He would no doubt be reported. His life would be over. Why should it be any different just because she is a woman?
- If a guy did that to a girl he would’ve been arrested already. So just report police if she does it again and make sure you have evidence
- The police will take you seriously if you are considering to do a report, but sadly, society as a whole won’t.