Wife confessed she baby trapped me
Me(29M) and my wife(31F) met 3 years ago and started dating a little over 2.5 years ago. About a year in, she became pregnant with our son and we decided to get married live together as a family. Honestly, it has been great and I am truly happy that I have a family and we’ve even been considering having another kid.
Last night after putting my son down, my wife and I were in the kitchen. She looked a little uneasy and out of nowhere she just broke down crying. I got her to calm down and she confessed that she got pregnant on purpose in hopes that I would stay with her. It was a huge shock to me but didn’t pay much attention to it as my wife wasn’t in a good state. She said that she couldn’t live with the guilt anymore and begged me not to leave her. I told her everything was going to be ok and sent her to bed to get some sleep. I pretty much stayed up all night driving myself insanse with what went down.
The thing is, I really do love my wife, my son and the way my life is going. And tbh, I really did see myself in this life, albeit a couple years down the line. On top of that, she really didn’t stand much to gain having me around as she came from a wealthy background and myself being middle class. In fact, it was her dad who paid off the house and helped financially even though I was able to.
I’m just really conflicted with her confession. Why wait so long? Is she having second thoughts? Can I even trust her? etc. Any help would be great here guys.