Dumped my broke a** bf
My bf is one of the most unambitious, lazy person I ever had the misfortune of knowing.
He doesn’t want to upgrade himself, sticking to his dead-end, menial job.
0 ambition and whenever I confront him about it, his response was always to be contented with simple living.
I am earning at least 5x his income and sometimes, want to enjoy the finer things in life. So I will offer to bring him to restaurants, using my own money, only to hear him say how cai fan from a coffee shop tastes as good.
Last straw came when he told me to change jobs, take a pay cut, so we can buy a bto as we are above the income ceiling. I outright told him I don’t want to stay in a hdb and will want to buy a condo.
He kept insisting a hdb is as good as a condo. Told him I can pay my share fr the condo, can he buck up and pay his share. He say he doesn’t want. Instead, we can consider. Hdb rental flat if we want our own space.
Dumped him on the spot.
Here are what netizens think:
- Both not suitable for each other. You worked hard play hard. He is more chill and simple. Important to find someone who has the same amibiton with you.
- Nothing wrong from both ends. May both of you find other suitable partners in future
- Lady, when you move into condo, you will be in jail. So much more restrictions than HDBs. Including big size furniture moving in and dumping. Good luck in chasing for material needs and find another similar taste guy.
- My sil n her hub bought a condo cos combined income above ceiling lvl. Condo was disappointing. 1mil for 1 rm. End up staying with my in laws. That said, u shld knw he earns lower than u from the start of ur r/s right? Why took so long for u to realize and then “brag” abt dumping him on the spot? I really dun understand young ppl nowadays