I never thought that I would be in a relationship with someone who worked in a disposal company.
It all started when I met him at a party. He was so charming and I was instantly attracted to him. We started dating and I thought that things were going great.
But then one day, I found out that he worked in a disposal company.
I was so shocked and I couldn’t believe it. I felt so embarrassed for him and I couldn’t help but think that he was a loser, a Garang Guni!!
I didn’t know how I was supposed to feel about the situation. I was so embarrassed for him and for myself for being with someone who worked in a disposal company.
I started to distance myself from him, avoiding any conversations about his work. I didn’t want to be associated with something so lowly. I started to look down on him and I couldn’t help but think that he was beneath me. I was so embarrassed and I felt like I had made a huge mistake.
But then something incredible happened. I found out that he was actually the boss of the disposal company and he was earning over $8k a month. I was so surprised and relieved. I felt so embarrassed for having judged him based on his job and I felt so stupid for having looked down on him.
I apologized to him and told him how sorry I was for having judged him.
He was so understanding and he said that he understood why I had felt the way I did. We talked about it for a long time and eventually, I was able to accept his job and even respect him for it.
But he did not forget how I treated him, he threw me away a month late and I was pregnant.
My father told me I deserved it and refused to help me, my sister said I asked for it.
I have no one to help me, what should I do…