My (36M) husband won’t kiss me for a couple of days after I (28F) orally please him, and it makes me so angry.
Regardless of this, we have a great marriage, he’s a great guy. We are compatible in bed for the most part, except when it comes to oral. I love giving him oral, it makes me happy to see the pleasure I give him.
After he comes though, it all changes. He won’t kiss me for a couple of days, especially if if he finishes in my mouth (which I absolutely love).
At first, I thought it was strange but it was easy to let it go. Now it’s really getting to me. I’ve asked him, and he says he’s simply grossed out by the idea of his come in my mouth, although he says he loves how it feels to finish in my mouth.
I eventually just stopped letting him finish in my mouth, which doesn’t feel the same to me because I truly love the feeling, but I don’t mind compromising, it’s about both our pleasure, not just mine. He still won’t kiss me. And I don’t even mean right away, just like the next day, he won’t kiss me.
Last night, we had a few drinks and a really nice evening. I was orally pleasing him again as usual, he finished in my mouth without warning. I’m usually pretty good at recognizing when it’s going to happen but he took me by surprise.
Today, as usual, he didn’t kiss me. I’m fed up by it, I lost it. I was so angry, I very vulgarly said I’ll just stop orally pleasing him if it’s going to affect him this much.
It makes me feel like such a villain.