My friend cheats on his girlfriend with prostitutes and I’m seriously considering sending an anonymous text to her.
This has been going on for about four years and I found out about it a year and a half ago.
He’s been with about fifteen prostitutes. He told me this himself and has spoken about going to Amsterdam on a holiday and hiring hookers.
I lived with this guy too, and one day he told me he was going to the shop. When he came back he revealed he actually went to get a “hand massage” at a massage parlour. No massage, just a “tuggie”.
He’s been with his girlfriend since they were in school, so they’re dating about seven years. She loves him so much. They’re renting a house together now and are outwardly the perfect couple. But I feel like it’ll come out at some point in their relationship and I think it would destroy her forever.
I think it’s messed up and disgusting. I want to send an anonymous message to her and just let her know what’s happening but I don’t know how many people he’s told. I think he’ll know it was me. I don’t know what to do.
Netizens’ comments
- For her hygiene and safety I would. She deserves to know that.
- IMO I wouldn’t want to be friends with someone like him, and therefore I’d spill the beans, so it depends on how much you value your friendship. In my mind dishonesty isn’t limited to one relationship. If he’s lying to her he’d lie to you about important things too, if he hasn’t already. I personally wouldn’t trust someone like that.