I’m a woman turning 30 this year and I’m finding it really hard to find a partner. Most guys looking are in their early 20s and most guys my age are already with someone.
I work in audit and I work very long hours. I admit I’m married to my job but it doesn’t mean I don’t want to “settle down.” And by “settle down” I just mean having someone I can partner with for the rest of my life. I don’t even care if I have children. I’m indifferent. I just want a guy whom I can spend time and grow old with.
Been on several dates and I realize very few guys want commitment. I only had one relationship that failed because he cheated on me and justified it by claiming I’m too busy with my work. I have already tried my best to spend time with him but audit is a really tough job. But anyway, that’s in the past.
I want a low-maintenance guy who can be comfortable being by himself but who is happy to spend time together when time permits. Surely there are guys like that? Don’t guys have to work in the 30s as well?
All the house-husband types are already taken.
Here are what netizens think:
- I’m dating anything that walks, please take me
- There is definitely someone out there who is also scratching his head and searching high and low for a girl like you. Just that both of you could have missed each another or you both have not met. Be a little patient, and look around. He could be around you. Good luck and don’t give up hope.
- Find a house husband like already house husband so when u free can go n talk n grow old with him, when u r not free he can work on his family…