The modern dating scene is often seen as a never-ending cycle of confusion and conflict. A lot of people, especially women, are fed up with the idea that men are somehow entitled to pay for everything. In this article, we’ll explore why this mentality exists and why the ‘modern man’ is being labeled as a ‘loser’ when it comes to splitting the bill.
A woman said:
Realize a lot sg guys quite loser. Go out with girl split payment, buy drink split payment, buy dinner split payment, buy house split payment also. No money no looks no car.
Netizens respond:
SG guys are gentlemen. Very good, best upbringing. Did their parents proud. First they dint rape, scam or ditch wives and remarry illegally than live double life. They split payment as they dont owe the girls anything. Unlike india girls asking men to buy food, clothing, charge their phone for them as they are not reserved type. Singapore girls are independent, they dont expect or owe anyone anything. No ties if they split the bill. India indians guys pay for chaya and expect her to belong to him. You dont wayang here. More of your stuff you may have to deal with.
A netizen pointed out “Nowadays woman also working”
I don’t see the issue with splitting though. Sometimes split, sometimes treat, and sometimes get treated back. It’s a partnership anyway, supposed to be a team, not just one sided. This isnt the old days whereby men are sole breadwinners and women sit at home to be housewives. In todays day and age, both genders are working, earning good money. If you want equal rights then be equal. Dont ask for equal rights when it only benefits you.
Mother say no such thing as free lunch
I’m a mother of 2 girls , I 10 fingers 10 toes 100% strongly support AA , must educate all girls outthere no free lunch , and reject free things from men , girls don’t fall into trap of all fishy mens’ trap.
Here are what netizens think:
- To be fair with men, how abt us girls? What do we have to offer? If u are sincerely emotionally connected with ur partner u dont need to be so calculative. It should be a give and take situation.
- Cars and houses really expensive. Just date someone way older like 45 years old when you are 20. The 45 year old sure have car and house and will pay for everything