Can you date someone from a different background?
So I (29F) just started a new relationship with my new BF (33M). We met at a party. We are together for about half a year. I know what is his job title, and where he works, but don’t really know exactly what he does. He tries to explain but I do not understand. However, something has been bugging me.
Whenever we go out on dates, we will always go to those atas restaurants. The prices are insane! Spending $1000/pax a night on dinner is crazy to me, but it seems like a norm to him. I am just a normal office worker earning about 3k/4k a month and I can’t imagine spending that kinda money just on one dinner, but this seems like the norm to him and he never once expected me to pay him back. Sometimes he will ask me to go somewhere cheap, but it will still cost at least $100 for both of us.
There was another time where I accidently dropped his watch when I was over at his place. It got damaged and he told me not to worry about it, but I felt extremely guilty and offered to pay him back. He kept insisting it was fine but I secretly went to google his watch, just to check out how much it is and what will be the expected cost of repairs. I wanted to surprise him, I know how men are with their watches. His watch is a brand I have never seen before and it costs 6 figures…… there is no way in hell I can afford to pay him back, and I think he knew.
I once questioned him about his spending and things. He claims that he works very hard and wants to enjoy the finer things in life, but I really feel that this amount of spending is crazy. It’s a whole different world. I went quite ballistic as I was worried about debts and stuff. He then promised me that he has 0 debts.
Am I crazy? What kinda world is he living in? I thought 6 months is too soon to talk about money la. I wanted to ask him to show me his NOA, but I feel it is too soon to show my psycho side la. I did beat around the bush and tell him that I want to buy a house, and settle down eventually, so maybe we should discuss about our future and maybe we can look at BTO in the future, just to kaypoh his finances. He just say that if we do end up getting married, we will just buy any house we want, it should be ok one, no need to worry. He is a sweet boyfriend and never once made me feel uncomfortable (other than this). Should I just let it go?