I (28f) thought my ex (32m) and I had a wonderful relationship for the last two years, but I guess I was wrong.
We met kicked it off. He was tall, cute, nerdy and a great lover, but last week he called me crying, apologizing and letting me know he cheated and that I need to get tested for chlamydia. I ended up having it and I was prescribed a round doxycycline to get rid of it.
He refused to tell me the names of the women he cheated on me with at first, which I needed to know so I could contact them to get tested so I called his mom and she forcibly sat him down at her dinning room table and got him to give up two names (it’s now been five names).
The one girl he cheated on me with was engaged and now her fiance is leaving her, and I had to deactivate my Facebook, because her family and friends wouldn’t stop harassing me for him leaving her and we’re threatening to call my work place and tell them I’m dirty and have STDs.
I also contacted the boyfriend of the other girl who’s name he gave up, but since I don’t want to reactivate my Facebook I don’t know how to contact the other people he named after her so they can get tested.
Some people think that I shouldn’t had gotten ahold of their boyfriends, because it just caused me drama, but my ex was refusing to inform anyone that he might had given them an STD because he didn’t want anyone to get angry with him, so I felt like I didn’t have a choice, because if I didn’t tell them no one would of.
Has anyone else very been in this situation and how did you handle it?