Bf visited prostitute during our vacation
Hi All,
I would like to get any advise on how to deal with my current feelings. My boyfriend is a supporting boyfriend and and we are in a RS for about 2 years. Recently we just went for a vacation and he visited to red light distinct while I was visiting to my relative there ( about 4ths last). While I was not with him for about 4 hrs, he visited prostitute and lied me that he was meeting a friend.
I have a gut feeling that something was wrong cuz normally he posted ig story when meeting frds in there but this time, didn’t post anything.
Since he is left out with cash, I checked his credit card DR and found out that he spent for taxi and prostitute.
I asked what he did, he kept lying he was visiting his frd and asked me that I am the insecure person and wanted to break up with me.
Is it normally for guys to visit prostitute even when you are in serous RS?
Should I ignore my feelings and choose to believe the lie ( which I know the truth and have evidence). I didn’t show the evidence yet but just asked him where did he go.
Here are what netizens think:
- This is seriously disrespect to u. He is on a vacation with u, and he sees no wrong in doing it with another one? How do u intend to build a relationship and even considers marriage when there is no trust now? Dun cheat yourself ( even though he cheated on u ), do the right thing and get out before u get “presents” from his exploits.
- As usual. Drop and find a better guys. U dun want him to pass you unnecessary diseases to you. Girl once u have better health than talk about serious relationships. If he is serious about you. He will not even thinking of going to visit those “lady” in the right light district.. live your own dignity. Good luck girl.
- His friend is the pros and he just lent her money to help her out. They sat in the room for 4 hours and chat, ordered food and drinks. Such kind friends hard to find, should be cherished.