What would you do if you discovered that your bf is secretly buying other women’s worn undergarments?
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My bf and I have been together for close to 3 years. He treats me very well and he promised that he will marry me in the near future.
However, I caught him buying worn undergarments from other women. Is this normal for guys or is he cheating on me? I love him a lot and I don’t know what to do..
Netizens’ comments
- You can buy my used underwear to spite him.
- Offer him your undergarments.
Sounds like he’s into that kind of things but he doesn’t know how to tell you about it, so he has to resort to buying stuff from other women. - Perhaps you can ease into it. Offering him yours for example. And if he is receptive, assure him that you are not pissed/ashamed/mortified by it. Just that you feel disappointed/displeased that he did not share this part of his life with you.
With that said, if you are genuinely turned off by your discovery, then you will need to re-evaluate your relationship. Because he will not stop. He will just learn to hide stuff better. - in a relationship it’s all about setting boundaries and following them. ask yourself if you’re comfortable with his actions. if you are, then leave it. if you are not, tell him that you want him to stop as it makes you uncomfortable. if he respects you and decides your relationship is more important than his k!nks, he’ll oblige. if not, he may purchase them secretly so you’ll have to monitor.