Valentine Day is around the corner. Looking back, there are many things that I want to share.
Throwback to two years ago, 23 years old, I never had a boyfriend. I am that kind of girl with pimples and oily skin. I deemed myself to be single.
Throwback to one year ago, 24 years old, I had my first boyfriend. A boyfriend who loves you for who you are, when he tells you you look better without makeup.
A boyfriend who accompanies you ups and downs. However, as a ladies man, he was talking to other girls too. I was unable to accept it and the relationship fell apart.
Currently, I am in a loving relationship with my fiance.
He is everything I wanted, smart, caring, generous and kind. Most importantly, treats you well, protects you and encourages you. What I want to say is don’t lose hope. A failed relationship does not mean that you are doomed. Be at your very best, be yourself and you will attract the right one. No mind games, no forced convo, and everything just flows.
Here are what netizens think:
- You sound like a person who let your emotions rule your head. Less than a year of being together is still honeymoon phase. Most people who are level headed will ride out at least a few years of being in a relationship with the same person before committing.
- One year ago you are with first boyfriend. Now you have a fiancé? How long was the relationship with the fiancé?
- I couldn’t help but to compare the two…. Ex BF and fiance. A ladies man and one who is not. Good looking and charming against one who is neither?