I lost my virginity to a coworker and I feel like crap. I take full responsibility for my actions, but I don’t know what to make of this. I thought with the wrong head.
Until recently I (19M) lost my virginity to a coworker (33F.) To clarify, she’s not into me. She just wanted to be the one to take my virginity even though she knows I have a girlfriend.
She said it was cute that I was still a virgin, and wanted me to lose it. I know I made the decision, but she put thoughts into my head that I won’t regret it and it’s just intercourse.
Well, it’s the day after and I feel like shit. For the record, I used a condom so we were quite safe to be honest. I was tired of being a virgin at 19.
My gf is also 19, but we were saving intercourse for marriage. Honestly, I really struggled with the idea. I’m constantly turned on.
Anyway, is this something that can be worked through? I know it will hurt my girlfriend a lot. I really regret it now that my mind is clear.
Netizens’ comments
- You’re a downright scoundrel, you don’t deserve anything good in life.
- You can’t take back what you’ve done. You need to be honest with your girlfriend. Most lessons in life are learned the hard way.
- Welp looks like marriage is now off the table for you lmao. And yeah you can work though it alone when she leaves you.
- Don’t know what to tell you. You cheated on your gf because you couldn’t wait for her yet. Hope she finds someone better. Hope you learned from your actions
- Well you’ve broken your arrangement with your gf. So that’s over. Also, you’re way too young at 19 to be thinking of marriage. That’s a good way to have a divorce in your future.
- And you are now waiting for your girlfriend to remain a virgin until the wedding? Or do you want her to lose her virginity with you? In my opinion, you don’t deserve this “gift”. You want to be an adult, do adult things, then put on your big boy pants and go tell your girlfriend what you did.