should i end my 7 months situationship
7 months into dating a guy but he still hasnt asked me to be his gf officially yet. what could be the reason?
i’ve been dating this guy for about 7 months now but he has never once make our relationship official. we do things that normal couple do, he brings me to his workplace, to meet his friends and also his family frequently. we met online btw!
im not really sure what he wants with me, i’ve talked to him twice about how i would want our relationship to be official but it was just a subtle talk. to him, he feels that labels are not important as long as 2 person are happy together which I understand. but to me, i feel that labels in a relationship aspect is important.
we meet each other 3-4 times per week, i pretty much see him as someone i would spend my life with. but im not sure about him. he also does not gets defensive about his phone, he does update me his whereabouts on days we dont meet and sends me telebubbles on who he is with. (so i dont THINK he has someone else)
im not sure if i should just end it because im afraid i would fall even deeper for him when all of this might just be a game to him.
guys, what are some reason you would not ask ur date to be your girlfriend officially?
Netizens’ comments
- Why dont you ask him directly
- Have you considered talking to him about this? Communication is important frand
- Does he introduce you to his friends or family as his gf
- Someone pls help me uds what is a situationship. Why is the dating scene so complicated now
- probably going to be downvoted, but… Ask him directly?? I’m one of those who dont care about labels, and was that way with my ex. Didn’t even realise it was an issue until they asked about it. If i’m treating you as my partner, the whole world knows you as my partner, what matters about the asking? If you need the assurance, just tell him? And I don’t post on insta all that much, so, that was that also.
- Lol if they are serious about you they would ask you to be their gf and discuss future etc. None of this stupid label nonsense.
- Aiyo if the guy likes u he WILL ask u to be his gf. If he never then he doesnt like u THAT much.