Dating rant.
I just went out on the first date with a guy i chatted with online. I thought he was smart and cool and decent looking on his profile. Even as we were texting I thought I like this guy’s personality at first. Since he called himself a male soprano, I suggested let’s sing Karaoke. so we travelled to meet in the middle.
When I saw him in person, I thought he was too fat and ugly and I wanted to bail! but since we came all the way down to meet I told myself I’ll be nice and gracious. At best I’ll treat this person like a friend instead of BF. Later when he sang the high notes, …he couldn’t reach them! Liar! Anyway we had fun singing away and I still needed a massage.
Then later on we went to get aime at Natureland. Earlier via text he said it was his treat. But since I made the reservation, I made the payment first. However I realised that while I was making payment, he didn’t raise the idea of paying back the bill. I was getting a bit queasy already.
Then as we parted ways to go home, he said he would pay me back to which I said ok. But nope, when I got home, I didn’t receive anything. Except for a text that he’s home. He wasn’t fully accountable to his words. Then he texted a few more times and I didn’t text him all day and I realised that he had CLEARLY NO INTENTIONS of treating me. So I thought it was very low of him. Then when I texted him about the bill about 10min after receiving a text from him, he pretended he did not see my messages and said he had crashed by then but I knew he was online. I caught his bull shit!! Hahahaha!!! So funny.
I love this typical feign-ignorance-then-put-up-an-excuse “sorry I’ve crashed” behaviour. Very mature indeed.
Not only was he deceptive, a liar, ugly and full of bs, he was insincere and immature too. Thank goodness it’s just tens of dollars. He could’ve scammed me for life! Hahaha.
Lesson learnt:
It’s wrong of this guy to post some old outdated photos and mislead me….
It’s also wrong of me to pretend I like him in the first place. I should’ve called out the misleading pics in the first place so things wouldn’t have gone downhill. I am glad I paid for this good lesson. I hope y’all learn from my lesson too! It’s worth every penny!
I realised two wrongs don’t make anything right.
To the ladies out there: he may look good on paper but then see what he’s like in real life also.
To the guys out there:
If I like your character and the convo via text and I like your IG profile, great. We can meet once. After the first date, if you’re fake then nope, you’re not allowed to see me another time.