Women with high libidos, how do you deal?
I’m a 21 year woman with a really high libido, and in a committed relationship. I’ve only been in 2 relationships, one with a female, and now with my wonderful bf of a year.
After my last relationship I made it a point that I’d be honest with my future partners that physical intimacy is important to me, and that I need someone who’s down to do it like 1 or 2 times a day.
When I met my bf and told him about my very high drive in bed. I self pleasure several times a day. He thought I was great and all, but now about a year into the relationship, our bedroom activities have tapered off a bit more, and he doesn’t seem as excited to do it as usual, or at least as excited as he used to be.
I do everything I can to keep him excited you know. Spontaneous bj, I go to the gym, stay fit and eat good.
But I want to do it more than him. I love sleeping with him. It’s my first time with a guy and he feels amazing. I just wish it was more often.
I’ve told him that and he says “we’ll do it more” but he falls asleep often after work: totally understandable btw, I get it, work sucks
But I often feel super weird for being a girl with a very libido. But that’s just how’s it’s always been for me. I was a virgin and never slept with anyone before meeting him but I’ll admit yes, I want it kind of all the time.
Is there anything you ladies recommend to get a guy more excited than usual? Or do I just need to touch myself some more? Just need some advice!