my boyfriend and best friend are talking s— about me and don’t know I’m up and can hear them…
My best friend came over to drink as I’m leaving for an overseas job posting, I didn’t want to play strip poker in front of my friend’s cousin(who just turned 18) whom I’ve helped raise.
My boyfriend told me I was ruining the night because I wouldn’t play.
I went into my room with the door ajar and listened to them talk bad about me and heard my boyfriend “joking” about sleeping with my friend and making borderline harassing comments trying to see her without clothes on.
they both said things that I told them in confidence that was between us individually and I really don’t know what to do.
I leave Monday for a job with my boyfriend’s family that pays 3 times what I make now and I need this job but I honestly don’t know what to.. think….
Netizens’ comments
- You’re so lucky you found out now. Don’t go with them. That’s not who you deserve to spend your life with
- Honestly if you need the job that badly then i say bear with it for now, keep quiet and get the job and gain some experience, its always useful to have experience in any field and if the pay is good that makes it even better, and at some point in the future when you feel secured and ready to be independent of your bf and his family, you can search for and secure another job then you can dump him if you still feel like it and if he’s still acting like a jerk.