I found out my girlfriend is married.
I found out when I called her cell and a man answered. I was super confused and double-checked the number and asked who it was and he said it was her husband his name and she was busy.
I accidentally yelled out loud and sighed then told him we’d been seeing each other and not once did she mention she had a husband and she never had a ring on.
I apologized profusely and told him that I had no idea and we would not be seeing each other anymore.
The poor guy was obviously crushed and angry at first but he understood and believed I didn’t know.
I told him again how sorry I was especially that he found out like this and told him to feel free to tell her she and I are done when they talk and we cut the conversation short.
Later she started blowing up my phone with calls and I didn’t answer. She texted me and was legitimately angry I told her husband.
I texted her back and told her she and I were done and what she did is scummy and blocked her number.
I know I did the right thing and that because I didn’t know none of this is my fault but I still feel like shit.
We’d only been dating for about a month but it still sucks. I just met her at a bar and we’ve hooked up at my place exclusively because her “roommate works early and needs sleep”
she also never stayed the night because she needed her “sleep apnea mask at home” God I’m such a moron.
Netizens’ comments
- You’re not a moron, and you did the right thing.
- I understand it sucks heavily. But you not only did the right thing, you saved yourself from unreliable cheating partner. Hurting is temporarily, you’ll feel better, stay strong.
- The audacity of her getting upset with you when she should be embarrassed the jig is up! Sheesh.
- Well, at least you had the balls to tell the poor guy.