Regarding FWBs
I have a FWB that’s been going on for over 6 months now. Initial months were really great- we were both hot and heavy for each other. And the S was pretty mind blowing.
I’m not looking for a serious relationship (and neither was he) so this worked for both of us.
However, lately I can feel the interest waning.
He goes for days without even texting me at all sometimes. Don’t ask me how I know but I know for a fact he’s active on dating apps. I know we aren’t an item or romantically dating, but it still stings, knowing that while he’s xxxxing me regularly he’s still swiping on apps to find & chat with other girls.
I think the problem with a lot of these men who want FWBs is that they only think about the “benefits” and they totally forget about the “friends” part of the equation.
I was ill recently and not once did he even check in on me to see if I was alright or needed anything. If the roles were reversed, I’d have either cooked some congee or ordered food on delivery apps and had it sent to his place; to at least make sure he ate. That’s what friends do.
Disappointed but not surprised.
I blame myself for having any of these expectations in the first place.
The truth is, I’d have happily continued this FWB thing for years and years & just enjoy it for what it is, because I don’t believe in so called committed relationships or marriage anymore; but the fact that he doesn’t seem to care much about me and doesn’t even behave like a friend to me in times of need….. it has totally turned me off.
All it takes is a tiny little bit of effort and men don’t wanna do it. But they love complaining that women don’t want them, don’t respond on dating apps, don’t wanna go on dates with them.
Gee, I wonder why. You men have made yourselves absolutely not wanted nor needed. Don’t complain.