Here is the second part of the story. It seems that the boyfriend tells people constantly that they are on a break and he refers to her as and ex-girlfriend. He even called his girlfriends family poor as he had to pay for her whole family’s Netflix. He stated proudly that if she didn’t blow him there were others who would.
CONINTINUED……
1. He tells people that we are on a break, and he refers to me as his “ex” or simply “her”.
We have only ever been on 1 break for the whole of 6 years, and that was 3 years ago for a few months. Whenever J asked him if I was just an ex then why would he have to hide the rls? He would just insist that it’s complicated and try to convince her to check my IG. He is pretty smart, because the last picture I posted of him was really years back.
Then again, his Facebook profile picture has my face in it. I genuinely thought it was sweet but J said he changed it purely because there was once he thought he almost got caught so he quickly changed it so I wouldn’t be suspicious.
He also often fed her sweet nothings like mocking me and saying he would never marry me because I have issues to work on (lol huh?? Do you have a mirror?)and things like he would be with her if she was shorter (excuses). According to J, whenever he bitches about me constantly and she asks him “why don’t you just leave her?”, he will just pretend he didn’t hear it or change the subject. Now we both know he was just manipulating her and using her to satisfy his sick needs.
2. This woman that I’ve never met knew more about me than I knew myself because he tells her everything. I didn’t even know of her existence but she knew EVERY little detail about my life. For 1.5 years. Why?
– This part I really don’t get. Don’t people cheat to get away from their partners or to enjoy the benefits of having 2 relationships? When you’re with her, why are you constantly talking about me? *cues Mariah Carey’s “Why are you so obsessed with me~” What do you want? To prove to yourself that you’re so great that you can have 2 girls (more, actually) at one go? Please enlighten me. I have his tinder screenshots too. All catfish!
– He often offers to pick my family up when we’re caught in the rain, he buys my grandparents things without me asking, he even offered to go and pay respects to my late grandmother on her death anniversary on my behalf and video call me because I’m stuck at work. He offers to do all these things, and yet he will (at the same time) text J and complain about it. He has said really rude things like “Wtf she even needs me to go and pay respects to her dead grandmother for her. Seriously useless” at the same time when he’s video calling me and asking my dad about how the prayers work etc. He asks me about my day, then goes to J immediately and say I’m so irritating and whiny and he’s so uninterested.
What a hypocrite. I really don’t get it. So he offers to do things for me just so he can bitch about me to other girls? Way too much effort. It’s not like I wouldn’t think he’s a good boyfriend if he doesn’t right? I think he gets off on bitching about me? Not like I would ever know so it’s not to hurt me, but to feel good himself?
I really feel so sick knowing that all the things I’ve shared with you about my day-to-day life are shared with her too. If you hate me so much, why go the extra mile? What does she NOT know about me?
Aside from that, he also constantly bitches on me on his Instagram stories, to his close friends list. If you’re on that list and still my friend, please fk off and die. Please look at this fking disgusting hypocrite.
3. He supposedly does this cheating with his best friend N**el and they both think they’re the Kings of this world and they can do whatever they want and get away with it. (LOL this is one of my favourite part of the exposé, please grab some popcorn! *cringe alert*)
A. He thinks he is god.
He proudly told her that he scrolls through tinder to ONLY fk girls in Simei because in chinese it is called 四美 (4 beauties), so he wants to build an entire harem of Simei girls. (ahahahahaahaha wtf)
When she asked:
“Lol you think you’re the King ah”
To which he proudly replied:
“Yes of course. I am god. Anybody who meets me is so fking lucky. I am a blessing to this world.”
B. Well. His idea of being a girlfriend:
(Please remember that he is telling this not to his bros, but to his other “gf” J. Isn’t he just so cocky?)
C. He’s not a horrible boyfriend. He is “just a guy”.
D. He secretly takes pictures of girls at East Point (Halo polis!!)
and sends it to J asking things like “You approve? For our threesome? Which one you want? You pick.” Sadly I don’t have a screenshot of these convos, but well. You can only imagine.
He also disappears for like a few weeks claiming that he was fking this other girl without any shame and just comes back to ask J for a threesome. BUT LOOK, HE IS REAL PROUD OF IT. No shame at all.
Screenshot of a chat of Sh**n talking to J.
E. Ok this is really quite smart.
BEST BROS AWARD. #brotherhood You guys deserve each other. There is a special place in hell for you two. Hell buddies! Y’all always think it’s so badass right.
4. He is a compulsive liar, and lies to impress girls.
> When she asked about how many girls he has slept with, he said he lost count.
He claims: “I am not very handsome but I can get all the chiobus. Let me teach you how to manipulate people. This is how I have my gf in my clutches”
(He doesn’t. He is quite a simp. Lol! I mean, of course from my POV he was just a very sweet bf and I thought we had a pretty equal rls.)
He tells J that he doesn’t kiss and tell when she gets curious about the girls, but he often feels the need to show it off to her.
Just to name a few, he quoted some influencer as his ex-fwb (I believe it should be his poly mate), he claims that he’s currently sleeping with this 26-year-old “ahlian” he knew from his best friend N*g*l, his colleague D***is and has often slept with his ex-classmate from Uni A*dr*a. Well I’m not sure if they ever slept together, or he’s really just dropping names to boost his inflated ego. After all, if you repeat a lie long enough, you might actually begin to believe in it right? But at this point, who cares honestly? 3, 5, 10 or 20. Good for you, bro.
> He tells her that I live off him and I’m practically useless.
He showed her that his bank account had $20k. (Idk, is it really something to be proud of for a 27 year old???) But the best part is that it wasn’t even his account! In fact, I pay for many things. He barely has more than $500 in his bank at any one point and is mostly always in debt with me. It’s always a “you pay first” as you can see in this screenshot:
(p/s this convo happened after I found out, so I was just pretending to be chill. TBH usually I would immediately transfer him some money. Lol shit AM I the simp? Oh no. Hahaha)
Huh where’s your 20k??
> He lies about him being really tough so J will be scared of him and he can force her to do whatever he wants.
For example:
“My gf is so scared of me, last year I told her to cut bangs or I’ll break up with her. Lol she looked like a Japanese p*rn star” And made J check my ig to verify. Yes I really had bangs. FML.
“Of course she doesn’t DARE to call me fat. I’ll whack her”
– But he’s a simp, remember? Hahahahaha
“I always bring a knife out when I meet people, even carousellers.”
Noice. Fierce!
“I love ahlians. Esp with tattoos. They’re so sexy. My gf got a tattoo because of me.”
To which she said: “Isn’t ur gf quite ahlian? Look at her hair colour”
And he said: “No, she WISHES she was an ahlian.”
– But I thought he’s a simp who tells me he loves me every 20 messages? Again, only calling him a simp bc he acts so tough! Guys, if you love your gf, you should tell her you love her all the time. It’s fine.
> He said that he bought his own BMW Z4 because he was sad about a break up, but he got bored of it and it’s not worth the money so he sold it.
He now drives his dad’s Honda. He never owned a Z4! But he showed her a picture of our dog in the drivers’ seat in his dad’s previous BMW. You can only see the dog and the logo, so it worked since she’s young and gullible. But… $40 in bank can buy Z4?