A Singaporean girl recently posted on Facebook on how her jobless/gambler husband scammed her parents and expects her to have s*x and pleasure him even though she’s close to giving birth.
Here is the full story.
I got pregnant and was forced to marry a guy who is a cheater as well as a gambler with tons of debts, or choose to get disowned by my family. He has been jobless for months and tried to scam my parents money previously using sympathy and out of my parents love for me. My love and respect for this man has died ever since.
I have more savings compared to people my age group, as I am someone who is frugal and works hard in life, the only mistake I did in life is to not open my eyes big enough and fell for the wrong guy, but I do not regret getting pregnant as I have always wanted a child.
Initially, my plan was to wait and see how this man would value-add to my life, change or contribute towards helping to raise the kid as the stigma of being a single mother is still there, but as time passes, this man whom I once loved has been jobless for almost a year and haven’t really been trying hard to find a job nor contribute in any way. All he does is play games, gamble online, don’t even bother to return his loans to me or my family, and watch Netflix all day.
It seems like even though I’m pregnant and giving birth, he does not seem to worry that he has to work harder to contribute to the family, he can’t even feed himself, and expects me to pay for all the expenses just because I have savings. And whenever he finds me, he expects me to have sex with him and pleasure him even though I’m close to giving birth.
I have read a lot of stories that say that singaporean girls are materialistic and go for guys with good prospects and income, whereas foreign girls do not. However, I would beg to differ. All girls would love to be doted and taken care of by their husband, which girl wouldn’t? But in this case if the man doesn’t step up, until which point should a foolish wife continue to stay with him despite his disloyalty, debts and attitude, I don’t think any foreign girls would be foolish enough still to stick around, and I definitely do not want to have to work harder in future to feed an extra mouth just because I was forced into this situation.