A guy shared how he is really skinny and underweight, looking thin and gaunt.
He shared that he has never progressed beyond friendship with girls, with one girl telling him that he looks too sickly.
Another girl even thought that he had health problems.
Here is his story:
“Is it true that if most things are equal, girls will tend to pick the guy who is more athletic and look fitter in general?
I am not talking about those with huge muscles or 6 packs but those who look more sporty in general.
I am a guy who is underweight and looks thin and gaunt. Although I have no issues striking up conversations and being friends with girls, it never progressed beyond a friendship.
In fact, one girl whom I have confessed have told me I look too sickly and another said I don’t look nowhere near fit and is worried if I have any health problems.
Not that it has bothered me too much and I have always taken in my stride but I am beginning to worry if I’ll be able to attract girls this way and my age is creeping up.
I’d really like a girl to accept me for how I look but it seems many girls can’t look past the surface.
I accept myself for looking the way I am and I have no major health issues. I have several hobbies but I am not a sports person nor interested in gymming, weightlifting etc and I don’t really want to spend effort to do all these to reshape my body just to attract girls.
Can anyone advise what I should do?”
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