When I got married to my husband he wasn’t that clear on what he was doing job wise he just told me he was a product developer.
He was only earning about $3k a month while I was earning $8.5k as an associate at a good law firm.
I regretted this because one guy who liked me ,who came form a rich and we’ll connected family who ran their family business in china was earning about $70k a month.
I felt that if I went with him instead of my husband I would have a better life I could stay in a GCB drive a Porsche and have all the nice stuff that I wanted .he even promised hell fast track me to partner status in his uncle’s law firm if I just dated him.
And instead, I was stuck in the laned house with my husband and his family. driving his dad’s old Mercedes
But I chose my husband, who over the year since we got married did not communicate with me much he just spent the days outside not telling me where and what he was doing
One day he came back a got me a set of Graff earrings. And told me how much he loves me.
He then said he was working on a business, that he had kept from me since before we were dating.
He’d worked hard for his business with his friend who’s a girl.
When did I ask him do he even make any money?
He replied $160k a month.
And that’s why I stayed with him.
I feel so guilty that I am only attracted to guys with money and connections. I even went down on my boss once after a party.
How do I improve my marriage,I also suspect my husband has something going on with his girl bestie.
Please help me