I would really appreciate advice from the community here, esp. those who have found themselves in similar situations.
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I am planning a trip to Japan with my gf. The thing is that her parents are very conservative… she is not allowed to go overseas with me and sleep over at my place.
so this trip is kinda being planned behind their back. we were planning to go hiking and we joked that if we fall and get seriously injured, we would fear her parents finding out about us going overseas more than getting hurt. so ya its difficult.
Any advice on how to get out of this situation and get more trust with her parents???
Here are what netizens think:
- Go to her house and invite her parents along for the trip. Problem solved.
- “Any advice on how to get out of this situation and get more trust with her parents???” Cancel the trip.
- A perfect example of how to definitely not get trust from your partner’s parents. Amazing.
- My suggestion is DUN! I understand the urge to go to a room, own private space, hanky panky and so on. But if u r serious abt her, dun do it. Marriage usually involves two families. Once the trust is broken, u need to double your efforts. This trust could mean u saving some money in future for your wedding, assistance with your future children, loan for renov and so on. Not worth it.
- I asked my gf go Malaysia for day trip when we were younger n she said no til now married for 20 over years Liao still nvr go overseas LOL
- Are you in a relationship with your gf for 8 years and beyond? If only 1 year how can you expect the parents to trust you?!
- Trust takes time ya. And why go so far Japan. Me as a mom will question that. Bintan already gao dim!
- Not for you to solve. This is between your gf and her parents. If she wants to lie to them, it’s her decision, don’t come kpkb next time and put the blame on you. If she really respect her parents and doesn’t want to make life difficult for you next time, she wouldn’t lie. She needs to grow up this girl.