Okay for context when we first started dating our friends labelled us as the “honeymoon” couple because we always went on dates and never got into argument and we were “excessively” happy
I (22F) have been married to my Husband (24M) for going on our second year as of yesterday.
As I stated before we used to be in a deep romantic state at the beginning but after a year that all died out when we moved in together. I don’t feel like his wife I feel like a roommate. We don’t do dates anymore and he’s not all that romantic and our date nights now consist of watching marvel movies on Disney+ (no issue I love the MCU) but I wish he would act like he used to!
So yesterday I expected to wake up to something nice like flowers or breakfast or maybe even a planned date or dinner but he barely acknowledged the day and we went about it as a normal Thursday until he invites me to go to the gym with him and his buddies.
At this moment I’m shocked and kinda livid but I agree because we share a friend group.
So fast track throughout the rest of the day I’m visibly upset. Because well one he forgot and two I spent my anniversary at the gym.
We get home and asks me why I’d been so quiet and I just brushed him off and separated myself. Which makes him really upset. He must have said something to his friend because I received a text asking if I was upset with his friends and I stated that it was nothing towards them and my issue was with him and I apologized if I made it seem such.
I haven’t spoken to my husband and don’t really plan to mainly because he didn’t see where he’s wrong and tried to tell his friends I was mad for a different reason to deflect blame so am.