Hey, So I’m the guy that was labelled as a “third party” in their 8 years’ relationship.
What I did and she did was definitely wrong, we do not deny and accept the criticism thrown at us. No apology can make up for the hurt that we have caused towards him either.
BUT please know the whole story first, during their 3rd year together he aka the ex-fiancé first cheated on her with his ex-girlfriend and his so-called flings, not only that he would also lay hands on her whenever he wasn’t happy.
Are you even a man at this point?
She tried to leave him many times, but he would always threaten to end his own life, and stalk her from her workplace to home. So being a gullible person she forgave and continued to stay with him.
Yes until she met me, (just to clarify she has never cheated on him or anyone prior to this) I know that I could give her the happiness and care that she wanted. Be it in monetary terms, mental support, and love that a couple should have in between each other. It is definitely not the right way to get together but she is someone that I see potential in as a partner, someone that I would always want to protect no matter what. She is also my first girlfriend.
Finally, I would like to add that, Mr fiancé here also has stolen her credit cards to use including the fact that he pawned away her Rolex watch and luxury bags all because he needed money. She herself had to pay for all their gifts, meals & anniversaries also as he always likes to “siam” whenever it comes to payment. So you dare call her a gold digger? Even if she doesn’t have me, she already has worked hard and bought all these things for herself. I am proud of her. I also wished that I could have met her earlier.
That’s all I have to say, thank you.”