A girl shared her story about how she is attached but crushing on an attached guy, because he is going to a top “ivy” for his PhD.
She said that people call her shallow for liking him because of his PhD but asks “is it my fault?” (yes)
Here is the story:
“My feelings for my crush came back strong not only because he is going to a top Ivy for his PhD, but also because of him as a person.
I have observed him taking care of his gf through Instagram since the beginning of their relationship.
He is smart, caring, and truly a gentleman. My bf is nice to me, but he doesn’t have such traits. He did pretty well academically, but it seems to take him so much time and effort to achieve good grades.
My crush, on the other hand, always travels around the world, while still remains as the cream of the crop.
People may call me shallow to have fallen for my crush again just because of his PhD, but there is no doubt that my crush will make it very big (I wouldn’t go into details here), either in SG or USA.
I understand that some of you guys may hate me and think that I am materialistic, but am I at fault for desiring someone better? Same for men who always chase after good looking and sexy girls, why can’t us women aim for someone more successful?
I admit that I do feel guilty towards my boyfriend, that’s why I am trying to suppress my feelings towards my crush.”
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