This is frustrating me. He doesn’t believe in using a microwave to heat up food. If I have left overs and it’s been a long day I can’t heat up food in a microwave it has to be on a stove. If I want popcorn I can’t use the microwave.
Now that I started my new job he refuses to let me use the microwave at work and suggested I take the air fryer. He gets frustrated when I want to use the microwave. He believes it can cause cancer.
Like wtf it feels over controlling. I don’t tell him how to eat his food or what he eats. I don’t know but it’s starting to upset me. I can’t even drink regular water from the fridge it has to be filtered water he filled up at a store.
It’s upsetting me. I understand he means well about health but I’m not stuffing my face with greasy fast food, sugar ladden soda, carbs, and anything that can severely damage my health.
UPDATE: We had an argument and I asked if we could have boundaries he blew it out of proportion and brought up a past relationship about his ex drinking soda and that’s what ended their relationship.
He said ok you can have boundaries you can do whatever you want to do don’t let me stop you. Then he went on a tangent about me and my blood pressure issues and how the microwave is damaging my body.
My BP issues are from major life stressors before I met him. He said sure we can have boundaries and if I decided to go out on a drinking binge, I have that right…
Like…. He doesn’t believe in me taking BP medication, he doesn’t believe in using a microwave, he doesn’t believe in drinking certain water. I’m at a loss.
We just moved in together two days ago and I made the 200 mile journey for my health. I don’t know… There’s so much I can type to this story it’s overwhelming.