My (M24) Fiancé (F23) has a friend that tried to sleep with her and she still wants to be friends with her, I don’t know how to feel or what to do.
Hi I don’t know how to start this but I really need advice. My fiancé of 7 years went over to her friends house a few days ago to hang out.
For context she is straight, but her friend is bi. She told me that her friend was flirting with her and asked her to stay the night and was basically hinting at them sleeping together
She told her that she’s engaged, so she’s not doing that. This girl already knew that she is in a relationship and she still tried making a move on her.
I was very surprised when she told me this. Anyways last night she told me she said she invited her to go drink with her and was basically asking my opinion on it.
I told her so the girl that wants to screw you wants to get you drunk? I told her that it was her choice 100% of course but I’m uncomfortable with her hanging around someone who lacks morals to the point she didn’t care we’re in a committed relationship.
I told her I wouldn’t be surprised if she’s tries to take advantage of her while she’s drunk. She ended up coming home a few hours later said she took a couple shots with her and didn’t say much else about them hanging out. I asked her if she tried to make a move on her again and she said no. Now I’m wondering if I’m right to be feeling insecure and untrusting of this girl.
We also were planning doing it that night bc she was telling me she was in the mood all day but then when she got home she said she was tired. I understand she has the right to revoke consent any point but in my insecure mind that connects the dots and made me feel even more insecure.
I understand that it’s definitely possible she just got tired and wasn’t in the mood but idk how to put my mind at ease or how I’m going to deal with her hanging out with her in the future.
Obviously I can’t do anything about it if she still chooses to hang out with this woman but idk how to manage my insecurities. Any advice would be much appreciated and if you feel that I’m overthinking things or not. Thanks.