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BF KEEPS ASKING “AM I BETTER THAN UR EX” WHEN “EXERCISING” WITH GF, TALK & TALK NON-STOP

My boyfriend won’t stop talking when we’re getting intimate and its so annoying

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I really do love my boyfriend but whenever we are f-ing, he keeps on talking and asking questions which kind of ruins the mood for me.

I also don’t want to go too hard on him because he had a history of having ED and performance anxiety.

I don’t mind if it’s a small talk before changing positions but it’s too often: he’d ask if I love him, how much I love him, is he better than the other guys I’ve dated, why is he better, same thing over and over again while he’s inside me and it gets annoying.

Sometimes I wish he shuts up and just enjoy the time but I don’t want to be the reason he gets performance anxiety or ED again.

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I really do love him but it ruins the mood for me and I don’t want to be selfish. Its just my assumption but since he has some confidence issues, I think he likes hearing about him being better than the ex’s and guys I’ve dated before him and why I think he”s better helps him grow from his insecurities and get confident.

Any advice on how to fix this would be so appreciated.

Netizens’ comments

  1. Sit on his face
  2. It sounds like he needs reassurance as you said. Have you tried complimenting him about those things in random moments? It may ease his insecurities and make him feel better. I would also try to have calm conversations about your needs and his, and try to find a middle point until he feels more secure.
  3. I’d say you should tell him you dont want to bring up your ex’s and other guys you’ve slept with, that you’re with him now the guys before dont matter
  4. Dude is clearly insecure af. I could definitely see this being extremely annoying. Consider having this convo outside of the bedroom and just speak your mind plainly. Tell him exactly how you feel. In a healthy relationship, you should be able to communicate your thoughts exactly as you feel them.
  5. my gf does this to me except she just talks about her day while I’m inside her. It’s really disconcerting and I’ve never had a partner do this before. And before folks say maybe she’s conveying she isn’t into it, this is with these she initiated. But like full on lady will talk about work, her boss, her kids, parents, etc.
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