I (21f) found out my bf (28m) is leading a double life with his gf of 8 years (27f)
I’m heartbroken. I don’t even know what to do in this situation. I live with my bf (james for the story) and we have been dating for 6 months.
I know that’s not much time but we were talking for over a year and he told me that he didn’t have a gf because the broke up 2 months before we went on our first date.
Today I woke up with a instagram DM asking if I know James and if he was cheating on his long time gf (27f) .
I live with the man and I was so confused so I pressed on for more information, and it turns out I’m the other woman. I feel disgusting and used, he was perfect and did everything right, now I know it was a facade.
I had proof and I went and confronted him about it and he just looked at me stupid and said he wanted to break up with her sooner but he is scared of her doing something stupid.
They have been sleeping together the entire time. I feel disgusting and I want to vomit. He’s been gone for 3 hours to “talk with her” and I don’t know what to do.
Netizens’ comments
- He’s probably not “talking with her”, he’s just avoiding dealing with you. What you do is pack his things up and throw it outside, or at most give it to a mutual friend. Never talk to him again. I’m sorry this happened to you.
- This is awful I’m sorry 🥲 I don’t understand how he was able to live with you without her knowing? Or was she aware he had a new girlfriend and was okay just cheating with him?
- You tell him to GTFO of your life is what you do. He’s a liar in the biggest way and has put your health at risk. This is a zero tolerance situation. Get him out of your house.
- You lock the door and don’t let him come back. It’s over with, babes. Know your worth.