My bf (34m) of 1 year asked for a break after argument with me (34f). Then got mad when I agreed
My bf and I had a silly argument over nonsense. After that he called me and said he wanted to take the next week and really think if he could have a healthy relationship with me and that we would meet up and talk about it in a week.
I respectfully agreed and told him to take as much time as he needed and left him alone. The next day he reaches out to “check on me”.
The following day he calls again asking to come over. He comes over and completely denied ever asking for a break saying he didn’t intend for it to come off that way he just needed time to think.
Now suspecting that he is playing games I told him I actually think taking a week to consider things is a good idea and we should honor the break and talk in a week. He agrees.
The next day he calls me and asks to come over and talk (disregarding the agreed break and no communication).
He comes over and says he doesn’t do breaks and if it’s a break I want then we should just end things. I was so caught off guard I just did fine. And he got up and left.
Thoughts?