My boyfriend’s colleague has always been quite touchy feely with him, even when I am around. It’s like she wants to show others that he is hers.
I thought it was just my imagination, but I think it’s been happening more and more often.
She likes to get close to him and I have tried to explained how I felt to my boyfriend, but he always brushes it off
I’ve never been the jealous type, but lately, I’ve been feeling a bit uncomfortable whenever she is around. She has a way of making it seem like my boyfriend belongs to her.
She always stands close to him and touches his arm when she talks to him. I’ve even seen her whisper in his ear a few times. It bothers me a lot.
My boyfriend is oblivious to all of this, and I don’t think he realizes how much it bothers me. I’ve tried to bring it up to him a few times, but he just laughs it off and tells me that I’m being ridiculous and that they only share a close working relationship.
However, I can’t help but feel like I’m losing him to her. She seems to have such a strong hold over him, and I’m starting to feel like I don’t have a place in his life anymore.
I’m sure she’s aware of my feelings, and I think she’s playing with me. It’s like she’s trying to show me who’s boss.
I want to confront her, but I need to consider that I have to give some face to my boyfriend because after all, they still share a working relationship with one another.
I feel like if I do anything, I would make my boyfriend embarrassed in front of his colleagues and might end up affecting his career.
I feel like I’m losing my boyfriend to her, and I’m not sure what to do about it. I just want her to back off and leave us alone. I don’t know if I can take it much longer.
I’ve tried to talk to my boyfriend countless times about how I am feeling about this colleague of his, but he just doesn’t seem to understand.
I know that he is not interested in her and did not cheat on me, but I just can’t help but feel uneasy with his colleague’s behaviour.