I (18f) am happily dating my bf (20m) for about 5 months. In these 5 months I’ve seen him go from jobless and broke to making enough money for the both of us to have a ton of fun off of. (Yes I work before some people start coming after me)
my boyfriend, let’s call him Henry lives with his mom let’s call her Stephanie and his two siblings and Stephanie’s boyfriend.
Stephanie has a degree in radiology and has always been well off financially. I’m not sure what happened but she is currently unemployed and her credit score is.. well, shit.
Ever since Henry got his big boy job we will call it, he makes great money like mentioned before. But it’s only now that he makes this money that his mom wants to suddenly hangout with him, have lunch with him, (of course drinks on him) and has an interest in what he talks about.
When he gets paid, she slowly begins to ask for more and more of him such as helping her catch up on bills, lunch, phone bill, internet bill etc.
Until she runs his pockets broke to the point where he only has enough $ in his account to get petrol for work for the week, leaving he and I nothing to do because he absolutely refuses to let me spend the money I work for to make up for it.
But when he’s empty she suddenly doesn’t pick up the phone. Doesn’t want to hear anything exciting he has to say, or anything.
But because we have only been dating a few months I don’t feel like it’s my place to say anything to him about what’s going on. He loves his mom, definitely mommas boy. And I like her too, until I started picking up on her antics.