Today i was sitting by my desk working when my boss (m/60) showed up.
I had some questions, and instead of giving me a simple answer to the things im asking about, he starts mansplaining to me really simple stuff. Like a toddler would understand this.
And not enough with that. Imagine im sitting by my desk holding my pc mouse with my right hand, he just puts his whole arm over mine and has it lying there while continuing to mansplain.
It was a part of his demonstration. For like I wouldnt know what a water hose blocking a door means. This whole time I was silently sitting and waiting and thinking wtf is going on. I could feel the warmth of his hairy arm and that made me feel sick.
Im so pissed at my self right now for allowing it to happen. But right there in that moment, I just froze. Im scared that he is checking my boundries. We are going on a work trip in few weeks and that gives me a bit of anxiety.
Should I quit my job now?
But it is unclear if he will take it a step further, if he does its too late. But at the same time I just can’t quit my job right now as I still need to survive.
This sounds like pushing me towards the 1st step of doing something I hate for money, as wrong as it sounds it is what I’m feeling.
If I make a complaint about it I will definitely lose my income.
What should I do?