Do I report this to the police?
My GF currently works as an intern and she told me her one of her manager has been acting weird towards her. It all started when he asked her personal question like why is her skirt so short and what kind of make up does she use.
It escalated about a month ago when he asked her if she shaves and if she is a virgin or not. Yesterday he invited her to come over via call saying that he and 4 other colleagues are gathering at his house to drink.
She felt smth was wrong so she brought a work colleague along and when she reached, the manager claimed that the other 4 colleagues never show up.
She called me yesterday and told me this and I wanted to drive down to confront that cb cus im fcking pissed. My question is do I report this to the police?
Everytime the manager says smth that is not supposed to be said its always through f2f or calls and my gf don’t have hard evidence.
I’ve known this for quite sometime and i cant do anything cus i’m afraid it will affect her grades and shes planning to go NUS. What should i do? Any advice will be appreciated
Netizens’ comments
- Just file a police report. Even if there is no action taken his name will be in the record and if he does something similar then the police can take action
- I’d advise you to get some evidence (e.g., get your girlfriend to secretly record/video him saying or doing something incriminating). You’d have a stronger case when filing a report to HR for harassment or to the police.
- yeah def get some concrete proof for now, file report to HR or police but ensure ur girl doesn’t get anywhere close to him ALONE for long periods of time 🙁 for sure unsafe sia this is damn tilting even to hear even as a stranger.. is this for poly intern or just self sourced? if poly make sure report to sch too bc i wouldn’t want the sch to keep sending their students to that company and to that f-ed up manager hope ur gf is okay and will be okay. she shouldn’t have to deal with this
- What I would do is ask the gf to report to the uni/school before going to the police. If the gf gives a consistent and convincing statement, the school must have a reason to believe and act.