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TAN KIN LIAN SAYS HE IS “DISAPPOINTED” GEORGE GOH DIDN’T QUALIFY TO RUN FOR PRESIDENT

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In the dynamic landscape of presidential elections, Presidential candidate Tan Kin Lian, a seasoned 75-year-old candidate, has extended his well-wishes to his fellow presidential hopeful George Goh in a statement on his website earlier today, wishing him all the best for his future endeavours, according to AsiaOne.

It was earlier announced by the Elections Department that Tan had received his certificate of eligibility to run for the Singapore presidency earlier today, alongside former chief investment officer Ng Kok Song and former minister Tharman Shanmugaratnam.

He added that he was “disappointed” that George Goh didn’t qualify to run for the presidential election.

Didn’t qualify

Tan Kin Lian, in a statement featured on his official website, conveyed his personal disappointment over the fact that George Goh, a 63-year-old presidential hopeful, did not meet the qualifying criteria to contest the upcoming election.

Despite this, Tan conveyed his sincere well-wishes for Goh’s future undertakings, “I like to wish Mr. Goh all the best in his future endeavors,”

Expressing gratitude, Tan Kin Lian thanked the Presidential Elections Committee for their “favourable decision” and the early release of the announcement.

“Focus on your own election”

Notably, Tan Kin Lian had previously proposed the idea that either himself or George Goh should step aside to support “the other non-establishment candidate” in the event that both of them qualified to run.

Goh then responded and told Tan to focus on his own presidential campaign instead, saying:

“I would like to make one final comment about Mr Tan Kin Lian and what he has been saying. Running for the Presidential Election is a serious matter. Each candidate should focus on their campaign, get ready, and let the voters decide. It is true that the rules make it more difficult for an independent candidate to prepare for his campaign without knowing if he will be eligible but I have all my campaign materials ready. As an entrepreneur, I move forward confidently and don’t complain.”

NG KOK SONG, THARMAN & TAN KIN LIAN GET ELIGIBILITY CERTS TO RUN FOR PRESIDENT

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The Elections Department announced that they have issued Certificates of Eligibility to Ng Kok Song, Tharman Shanmugaratnam and Tan Kin Lian to run for the Singapore Presidency.

Statement from Elections Department Singapore

ISSUANCE OF CERTIFICATE OF ELIGIBILITY FOR PRESIDENTIAL ELECTION 2023

At the close of applications for a Certificate of Eligibility on 17 August 2023, 5:30pm, the Presidential Elections Committee (Committee) received a total of 6 applications. The Committee has issued a Certificate of Eligibility to the following:

(a) Mr Ng Kok Song;
(b) Mr Shanmugaratnam Tharman; and
(c) Mr Tan Kin Lian.

Ng Kok Song

2 Mr Ng Kok Song applied under Article 19(3)(c) of the Constitution of the Republic of Singapore (Constitution). Based on the information available to the Committee, it is satisfied that Mr Ng is a man of integrity, good character and reputation. The Committee noted that Mr Ng was the Group Chief Investment Officer of GIC Private Limited for a period exceeding 3 years. The Committee is also satisfied, having regard to the nature of Mr Ng’s office in GIC Private Limited and Mr Ng’s performance in the office, that Mr Ng has experience and ability that is comparable to the experience and ability of a person who satisfies Article 19(3)(b) of the Constitution. The Committee is also satisfied that Mr Ng has the experience and ability to effectively carry out the functions and duties of the office of President.

Tharman

3 Mr Shanmugaratnam Tharman applied under Article 19(3)(a) of the Constitution. Based on the information available to the Committee, it is satisfied that Mr Tharman is a man of integrity, good character and reputation. The Committee is also satisfied that Mr Tharman has met the public sector service requirement under Article 19(3)(a), having held office for a period of 3 or more years as Minister.

Tan Kin Lian

4 Mr Tan Kin Lian applied under Article 19(4)(b) of the Constitution. Based on the information available to the Committee, it is satisfied that Mr Tan is a man of integrity, good character and reputation. The Committee noted that Mr Tan was the Chief Executive Officer of NTUC Income Insurance Co-operative Limited for a period
exceeding 3 years. The Committee is satisfied, having regard to the nature of Mr Tan’s office in NTUC Income Insurance Co-operative Limited, the size and complexity of NTUC Income Insurance Co-operative Limited and Mr Tan’s performance in the office, that Mr Tan has experience and ability that is comparable to the experience and ability of a person who has served as the chief executive of a typical company with at least S$500 million of shareholders’ equity and who satisfies Article 19(4)(a) of the Constitution in relation to such service. The Committee is also satisfied that Mr Tan has the experience and ability to effectively carry out the functions and duties of the office of President.

Notification to candidates

5 The Elections Department has notified all the three individuals above of the outcome of their applications.

6 Unsuccessful applicants for a Certificate of Eligibility have also been informed of the outcome of their applications and the reasons for the Committee’s decision. Pursuant to regulation 11(2) of the Presidential Elections (Certificate of Eligibility) Regulations 2017, the Committee may only publish its reasons for rejecting an application in the circumstances set out in regulation 11(3), and must not do so outside of those circumstances. Hence, the Committee will not publish the reasons for rejecting the applications of the unsuccessful applicants. The names of unsuccessful applicants will also not be published, in light of the concern expressed in the Report of the Constitutional Commission 2016 that potential applicants may be dissuaded from
stepping forward to contest the elections for fear of embarrassment. However, unsuccessful applicants are not precluded from publishing the Committee’s reasons provided to them.

ISSUED BY
SECRETARIAT, PRESIDENTIAL ELECTIONS COMMITTEE
C/O ELECTIONS DEPARTMENT

18 AUGUST 2023

GIRL WANTS TO SEEK REFUGE FROM MOTHER WHO IS “TERRORIZING” HER

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A girl shared how she is being terrorized by her mother who smashes things against the table and throws dangerous items at her, and she wants to seek refuge from her.

Here is the story:

“I am desperate, frustrated, and at my wits’ end. The relationship I have with my mother isn’t the best and I have no one to turn to. I share my problems with a close group of friends but there’s nothing they can do and I’m left to fend for myself at the end of the day.

I’ve done all that I can as a daughter to provide for my mom and even take care of the family by paying for daily expenses. I don’t earn a lot but I try my best to help whenever I can and by making sure that I don’t take a single cent from my parents.

Aside from monetary contributions, I do most of the household chores at home and I even buy my parents’ favourite snacks and food for them occasionally.

My father adores me and does all that he can to ensure that I eat well and sleep well, but my mother terrorises me day and night, to a point where I feel so anxious and annoyed whenever she’s home and I feel at ease when she’s out.

With the neverending pandemic, I’ve been stuck working from home, facing my mother every day and it’s horrible.

She loses her temper over the most minor problems like if I forget to switch off the bathroom lights, or if I don’t respond to her immediately when she calls my name. She can smash things against the table at any time of the day and even throw dangerous items at me whenever she’s angry and never apologise for her actions.

She thinks that she’s the queen of the household because none of us will disobey her. I’d feel better if she does this to everyone but unfortunately, I am the only victim.

She dotes on my brothers, treats them to everything they want to eat, buys gifts for them, cleans up after them, but never does anything for me.

I want to seek refuge elsewhere and live away from her, but I have no boyfriend or husband to rely on, nor do I have the money to rent a place of my own.

I feel so unwanted despite being the child who does everything she can to please her. I’ve seen so many child suicide cases and parents feeling remorseful and heartbroken for not being able to save their child and I often wonder if she’ll feel the same kind of sadness if I’m not around anymore.

Having no one to turn to and no place to go to. Is there really no way out?”

MAN DOESN’T WANT TO MARRY FIANCEE – THEY ONLY “SLEEP” TOGETHER ONCE EVERY FEW MONTHS

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A netizen shared that he doesn;t want to marry his fiancee because of a slew of reasons.

Here is the story:

“We’ve known each other for about ten years We met and dated in our poly days and a little after I graduated until she cheated on me and immediately started dating someone else.

There was nothing I could do as I was in the army at the time and she told me over a text that she wasn’t happy.

Ten years later, we reconnected, got engaged. As for the cheating, we talked about it and it’s in the past.

Ever since we got engaged, we don’t sleep together much, it has been almost non-existent (once every couple of months maybe).

Little things about her really bother me; to put it bluntly, she’s a terrible listener. She also works a ton and never really has time for me, and when she does she only talks about work.

For Christmas, instead of getting me a present, she paid for a stitch fix that I got for myself and called it a day. I just watched her open all her gifts Christmas morning.

Also didn’t get anything for my birthday now that I think of it, but it was at a crazy time.

Overall, there’s no excitement, but I do love her and I’m sure I always will. My parents also adore her which makes it more complicated.

I’m afraid I’m going to be stuck with a roommate for the rest of my life. I don’t know what to do. Please help.”

GIRL’S FATHER DOESN’T KNOW THAT SHE IS NOT HIS BIOLOGICAL DAUGHTER

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A netizen shared how her father doesn’t know that she is not his biological daughter, and she is asking what she should do.

Here is the story:

“my mom recently told me that I am not my father’s daughter. my biological father is someone I’ve always thought my mom’s good friend, and I met him a couple of times growing up. there was one time the 3 of us (my mom, my biological father, and me) went to the mall together where he bought me a bag

I was born 2 years after my parents got married, so my mom was definitely having an affair and my mom told me that my dad doesn’t even know I’m not his daughter, which means he doesn’t know he was cheated on (they are still married now)

I live far away from my parents and I don’t have a good relationship with my dad. the last time I talked to him was 2 years ago. even so, I still feel guilty keeping this from him, but I also cannot go behind my mom’s back and tell him everything

what should I do? asking my mom to tell him is not an option, so should I keep this from him for the rest of my life and act like nothing’s wrong? should I tell him and ruin my parent’s marriage? or should I just cut ties with him since I’m not her biological daughter anyway?”

GIRL COMPLAINS ABOUT BF’S SMALL ‘KEY’ & ASK IF THE FEELING WILL BE DIFFERENT

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A girl complained on social media about the size of the key which her boyfriend has and asks if the feeling will be different on the lock.

She has not got it on with her boyfriend yet as they just got together but they had a conversation about it yesterday and he told her that girls always leave him because his key size is too small for them.

Here is the story

“I’ve been seeing this guy for a few weeks, I really like him and we got together.

One night over dinner, had a deeper conversation about past relationships and he says girls always ghost him pretty early on and how he didn’t want that to happen with us.

I got curious and asked him why.

At first he told me that he thinks it’s because he’s too nice but I kinda pressed him about it in case it was something serious.

He finally told me it’s because he has a small ‘key’.

Of course I didn’t think that was really it because every man kinda thinks that their ‘key’ is not big enough.

He explained that he actually has a micro ‘key’ and being intimate is different with one and I can leave him if it really affects me

That night was supposed to be the night which he opens my ‘lock’ but after that conversation, the mood was gone.

I really like him and I don’t want this to be the end but I will like to know if having a small ‘key’ feels different from having a normal one?

We eventually got to the point where we were intimate and I was sitting on top and making out.

He then said the ‘key’ has evolved and it felt good to him but honestly, I didn’t feel anything.

The mood then died down when he undressed to his birthday suit and I could not even see a bulge.”

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GIRL’S MOTHER ADMITS TO IGNORING HER CRIES AS A BABY WHEN SHE WAS HUNGRY

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A netizen shared how her mother used to ignore her cries when he was a baby and crying for food.

Here is the story:

“I always knew my mother was neglectful as far back as I can remember probably 4 years old is the clearest memory.

all my primary school young childhood memories involve making my own lunch, doing my own laundry, heating up frozen dinners in the microwave and begging my mom to play with me while she laid in her room for seemingly months on end. (Dad was absent workaholic, now dead)

There were times that she showed interest in me, but they were sparing and didn’t last. Anyway I STRUGGLED with self esteem, self worth etc. growing up.

I was an easy target for the older kids and I got in a lot of trouble in my teen years “acting out” because I just despised myself.

This led my mom to label me a “problem” and or “bad” child. Thank god I had an older sister in the house until I was 12 that helped me with basic needs.

Anyway fast forward therapy, therapy, more therapy I fixed my life and self worth issues, I am married to a wonderful husband and have the BEST toddler in the whole world, he is my life.

I also have a really successful career but I have days I just feel “flat” and still suffer from imposter syndrome, like I don’t really deserve my good life now.

My mom and I still speak and she has admitted/apologized to most of the neglect, but the other day I was on the phone with her and my toddler was saying “Mama, Mama, Mama” and started crying at one point so I said I needed to end the call to attend to his needs.

She said and I quote “Just ignore him, that is what I did with you kids. People used to comment on how I would always ignore you kids crying out for help but I couldn’t take all the “Mom Mom Mom” so I just tuned you out and ignored you, and because of this you are independent and strong”.

Like WTTTTTTTTTF my son is 14 months old for context he had a legitimate need, he was hungry it turned out.

I asked my mom is she did this when I was a toddler/infant and she said yes proudly.

As a mother I cannot fathom any of this. So cruel. As a daughter I now understand why despite all the work I have done on myself I still feel empty and unlovable most of the time.

It just hurt to hear that the neglect went back to when I was literally a helpless infant. I feel like it is scorched into the fabric of my being.

I will be better, and I will do better for my son. Just had to get this off my chest.”

BOSS FORCE EMPLOYEE TO LIE AFTER GIVING A RAISE, EMPLOYEE QUIT

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I’m a regular office guy who does IT and additional “this and that” for a mid-sized company. I program, set up, and run 4 POS machines at 4 locations islandwide and paid I have felt I am underpaid for a while and looked at other workplaces.

Got a job offer to do something similar for 20% more salary. The owner of the company where I work has said loudly on the shop floor that he does not compete for workers and never will. I, therefore, gave my 2-week notice to him in his office and went back to work.

I told my coworkers I quit and why. The next day the owner comes to me and offers me 25% more and another week leave. I accept out of a sense of obligation because I have received a lot of training from them. I tell my co-workers I am staying with no mention of the offer, but it’s not hard to figure out. My supervisor immediately goes and demands a raise.

The boss lies to him and says he made no competing offer. The boss comes to me and says that I need to tell everyone I lied about the job offer to squeeze more money from him and that I was not offered another job, and he did not offer more money.

I then quit and left. Emailed HR my resignation stating why. I then emailed my job offer letter from the other company to my coworkers to show I am no liar.

Here are what netizens think:

  • Your ex boss is trying to control things that he isn’t allowed to. With that attitude he will be lucky to keep any employees.
  • I’ve always felt that once you have decided to leave, leave.
  • You are only worth what you can negotiate. Your ability to create value for your employer is only a part of your wages. Some employees DESTROY value, but are able to make the same wage (or even higher) than their coworkers because they can negotiate better.

GUY ASKS IS IT NORMAL FOR HIS GF TO SLEEP AT MALE FRIEND’S HOUSE AFTER DRINKING

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A guy asks is it normal to for his girlfriend to sleep at her guy best friend’s house after a night out drinking.

Here is the story:

“Is it normal for your girl/boyfriend to sleep in her/his best friend’s house who happens to be a boy/girl?

So my girlfriend went back to Taiwan a month ago and she’s gonna come back in April. She has a lot of male friends, some of whom she has known for quite a bit of time. What she does is that she’d go out for a drink with them sometimes and sleep at her best friend’s house who allegedly has another vacant room.

Maybe I’m being too conservative and controlling, but I really don’t like her continuing to do this. She thinks I’m overreacting, and she says she’s disappointed that I doubt her and her best friends. I asked what she’d have felt like if I had done the same thing with a female friend, and she said she honestly wouldn’t care because she thinks it’s okay.

Am I an insufferable jerk? Am I being overly sensitive and protective…? Would you tolerate such behaviors..?”

Editor’s note: Your concerns are valid, that’s a red flag.

WOMAN WITH LAO SAI SYNDROME DEMANDS GUY EAT ANTI-LAO SAI MEALS WITH HER

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A friend of mine has had Irritable bowel syndrome, in another word she is lao sai queen. For most of her life and in the past few years has gotten it mostly under control by changing her diet to gluten and soy-free and vegan. However, it is SO hard to go out to eat with her. She basically can’t eat anything at a non-vegan restaurant and even then, it’s hard to find something that is also gluten and soy free. There’s a raw vegan restaurant that’s got an okay selection that she usually goes to. She’s asked me to go eat with her there several times. I’m sure some people enjoy this place, I, however, am not one of them. It’s also very expensive and I’m not rich. I’ve started turning down invites to go to dinner with her and have been offering other activities or eating at one of our places.

She really likes going out to dinner and said it’s one of her favourite activities. She’s now mad at me bc she said I am refusing to be accommodating of her dietary needs. I feel bad about this but I’m tired of spending $30 on a meal I don’t enjoy at all.

She started getting angry

As I keep rejecting her, she started to ask if I don’t like her or don’t want to see her etc. So I am kind of stuck, I know it’s not her fault she is a breed of lao sai queen but all these so-called healthy places which don’t even cook the food is charging so much.

What should I do? I don’t intend to start a romantic relationship with her but she is a good friend. But I’m getting kind of annoyed…