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GUY DOESN’T TRUST GF, WANTS HER TO REPORT LIVE LOCATION & TAKE PHOTOS TO SHOW HIM

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GUY DOESN’T TRUST GF, WANTS HER TO REPORT LIVE LOCATION & TAKE PHOTOS TO SHOW HIM

A girl shared how she is dating her boyfriend who doesn’t trust her and that they have been breaking up and patching back together multiple times.

Here is the story:

“Sorry this is gonna be quite long. I need some advice and needed some ranting.

So i have this bf, we met on dating apps and we’re together for 2 years now. I have been staying with him at his place ever since. We have been breaking up and patching multiple of times, and his problem is that he got trust issue with me, so everywhere i go i have to take photo for him.(with who, where i am at), live location, He will also have my whatsapp web on his phone. Mainly because when we “break up” i would download dating apps and use it thinking that we “break” and could never patch back again every single time. I did meet new people from the datings apps here n there. But JUST MAINLY to eat, nothing else i swear on my life. But my bf he don’t believe, therefore he thinks that I cheated on him etc etc. In between those “break n patch” i’ve move back to my own place.

But now is that i’ve given birth to a baby with him. Things still happen.

Firstly, his house is like a zoo. There’s BIRDS, FISH and DOGS.

The hygiene isn’t there at the first place. Well when you think thats maybe ok. His dogs (2 dogs) are not properly trained. They pee and shit everywhere in the living room. The birds take over the balcony and kitchen. Could you imagine cooking with the birds? Everything in the kitchen is covered with cling wrap all etc. And cmon how worst could it be right? THE ONLY WINDOW IS AT THE BALCONY. Can you imagine the smell?

Before i even give birth i’m staying in his room all day like IMH patient. Now my baby do basically the same things as me. WAIT before yall say what why didn’t i talk to him all. I SPOKE TO HIM BEFORE. His dogs very smelly, train his dogs all wait baby come out already whr to learn to crawl walk all. I told him i wanna move away or at least get a rental or sm shit.

He told me. “Now i don’t have the money. I also going enlist already. Cnnt wait meh?” Ya enlist. He’s 23. Say he don’t have the time to shower his dogs all come back take care baby. Guess what. Dogs belongs to him his but his mom  taking care for him buying food for the dogs all. Wow. Nvm i told him i’ll go find jobs, there’s people willing to help me take care baby. He say he don’t trust me therefore i’m still here in his house. Waiting for him to bring back money when he didn’t even have the responsibility, he work as delivery and only 4hr a day.

I tried moved away, but he ended up threatening me. He going suicide all, baby is his everything (his family rs not good), I don’t want my baby noy being able to see his father. At that point of time, i still do have feelings for him and i don’t wanna lose him so i went back. but when i’m preg he kept claiming that baby not his all. FORCED me to abort, didn’t really contributed when i’m preg. But wants everything.

Secondly, his mom has the very traditional thinking. So everything that i do is WRONG TO HER. I’m now a shm. I gave my baby pacifier, his mom started nagging “why give pacifier, now baby so hard to take care. Last time i could just hug her and she’ll sleep.”

Cmon, your THIS SON DIDN’T YOU FEED HIM PACIFIER TOO? YOU’RE THE ONE TAKING CARE OR ME. Also she say don’t speak things about baby infront of baby. Like for example “baby very cute, she very guai, her hand very small.” HIS MOM ownself say those infront of my BABY.

I mean this is my baby, i know my baby best and his mom would wants baby to sleep with her sometimes, then when baby gets fussy, she’ll starts to indirectly says me.

“Why give pacifier, see drop cry drop cry. This baby very hard to take care, keep crying. Baby dw sleep i wan to sleep.”

All nvm, i hand washed my clothes and baby’s. Washing machine spoilt. When i see she’s not drying any clothes. I went to soak my clothes going wash the next day, but instead. She wash her bedsheet and dry it. Till now my clothes has been soaking there for 4 days. I have been re-wearing my clothes for past 3 days.

Thirdly, my bf, me and baby went out on xmas day to buy all of ours cny clothes, cause he going ns right. Guess what, he got me a shirt, i just take one from the shelves cause he were bout to pay for the clothes. If i didn’t take any, he wouldn’t probably rmb getting for me. He spents HOURS LOOKING at his clothes and baby’s but mine?

P.s. he didn’t give me any money, i’ve talk to him before MANY times.

The money that i’ve earned when i’m preg is all used up. Buying baby’s crib all, diaper all. I tried getting from other’s but his mom said very ‘pangtan’ but them taking it from his relative?!?? So? I really don’t get it, but i couldn’t say anything. At least baby could still have it.

I’m slowly getting really exhausted, mentally tired, i really don’t know what to do. For your information, i’ve been disowned by my own mom because of him. He’s been sending message to my mom like “How do you teach your daughter to become a slut.”

And messages to me always “No wonder your father deserve to die because of you.” My father passed way before i met him. I couldn’t complete my studies and my dreams, i’ve got no one left. Friends all drifted because of him ya.

For my baby, i really need some help i guess? I really don’t know what to do anymore…

Thanks for listening to my story “

Editor’s note: Wow how did you even get together with him in the first place… This guy is a villain…

MERC DRIVER KICKS OTHER MERC DRIVER’S CAR, THEN DRIVES INTO HER & PUSHES HER @ CLEMENTI

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MERC DRIVER KICKS OTHER MERC DRIVER’S CAR, THEN DRIVES INTO HER & PUSHES HER @ CLEMENTI

25-year-old Malaysian Naavin Gopalan, was charged on 13 June with 2 counts of causing hurt by rash act and another count of mischief following an altercation with a grey Mercedes driver on 17 January earlier this year.

He pleaded guilty and was sentenced on 10 July to 3 weeks imprisonment, as well as being banned from driving upon his release from prison.

The incident occurred at a traffic light junction in Clementi, where the 25-year-old male driver of the red Mercedes confronted the 46-year-old female driver of the grey Mercedes after the former got upset at the latter for being too close while changing lanes.

The altercation resulted in the man hurling vulgarities, kicking her car, pushing her to the ground, and attempting to leave the scene; as the woman then tried to block him from fleeing by standing in front of his car.

What happened?

The confrontation unfolded at the traffic light junction of Clementi Road and Sunset Way on January 17, 2023, when the red Mercedes driver felt that the grey Mercedes driver was getting too close while changing lanes.

Both vehicles came to a stop at the traffic light junction in Clementi, and the man confronted the woman. The situation quickly turned heated as the woman responded by shouting expletives, further provoking the man’s anger. He retaliated by hurling vulgarities and kicking her car door and side mirror multiple times.

After the verbal exchange, the man returned to his car intending to leave the scene. However, the woman stood in front of his car, preventing him from doing so.

In a disturbing turn of events, the man slowly drove forward, briefly pushing against the woman before getting out of his car and pushing her to the ground.

The altercation resulted in the woman suffering abrasions on her knees, shins, and left elbow. Additionally, her car incurred substantial damage, amounting to S$2,235 for repairs, which Naavin did not pay.

IGNORANT INFLUENCER GETS TROLL FOR BEING JEALOUS OF LAWYER BF

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IGNORANT INFLUENCER GETS TROLL FOR BEING JEALOUS OF LAWYER BF

Here is the story of a girl who is unhappy that her boyfriend is a lawyer and she enjoys the jobless mentality:

I’m an influencer.. and my bf is a lawyer. I get jealous about him easily but deep down I really think it is a mix of possessiveness and envy. The girls in law (at least those who are the bf’s colleagues or course mates) look good, are financially+mentally independent and obviously very bright. Heavens really bless some people. How to compete and fight off attraction like that!? Lawyers also work very late hours.. I consider myself the understanding type but I still can’t help but wonder about the bf’s whereabouts. If I must be completely honest I do feel inferior in other areas to the other female lawyers around the bf since my relative strengths are mainly looks. Guessing maybe also the fact that the bf is a bit alpha mentality and clearly date down to protect ego hahah. Anyone dating lawyers or other high flying SOs with advice? ):

Netizens gave her an epic respond

You have a few options:

1. Change ur lawyer BF to an influencer bf who can help you take more Instagram pictures. Maybe your followers will even increase from 500 to 1000.

2. Get a proper job so you can fill up your time meaningfully and stop thinking about such stuff.

3. Get a degree in law / be a paralegal / secretary so that you can follow him 24/7

4. Use your time wisely to upgrade yourself. Be happy. Love yourself. If he sticks with you, he is yours. If he doesn’t, then f it and find your happiness.

Netizen B:

I stopped at ‘I’m an influencer’.

Netizen C:

Instead of feeling inferior, why not upgrading yourself to gain more knowledge? Looks is not sustainable and there are so many pretty ones out there.With no efforts made in a r/s, I guess the sparks will die off fast.

HUSBAND STARTS BUSINESS & DRIVES WIFE TO WORK LIKE MAD WHILE HE SLEEPS

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HUSBAND STARTS BUSINESS & DRIVES WIFE TO WORK LIKE MAD WHILE HE SLEEPS

How do I deal with a husband who live in his own world?

I married to my husband at 2018 and everything is good at the starting until he decided to run F&B business at 2020.He have no idea the amount of salt & sugar for the cooking but he make a decision to open the business with his friend(from decide to grand opening less than 6 months) but unlucky his friend also not a cook person so due to cannot see he fail I decide to help him and all the nightmare start. He is not a details person, so by-force I need to take care of the ordering part with supplier & train the staffs with daily operation running. And my job not end with this, after finished at outlet I still need to continue check my staff to cook at central kitchen. He is basically deal the apps & marketing & drive grab to cover monthly expenses. And he said business just starting so he only can pay me S$2500 a month for my work, after minus CPF left S$2k on hand. He never ask me pay for house but as in wife I will still buy my daughter needs & others stuffs.

At Aug 2021, he keep bring me & my in law to do the house viewing. Then I ask him is it he wanted to buy a new house but he said just viewing only, because he use to see property video so I trust his word. We see a few condo and he ask my opinion, then 9/7/2021 he bring me see 1 of the condo at the east coast and the salesgirl told him the price will increase on the 12/7/2021. After viewing he seem like really get into and we sign the agreement of purchase at the midnight on 11/07/21. At the time our previous house haven get buyer and the new house only complete by 2023 so in very rush we sell house and move to rented condo. He is that kind of person who cannot listen to objection and I told him I haven ready to this big buy but he said no need me to pay, just help him pay maintenance fee is good enough.

Then on Sept 2021, he not end his dream yet. He decided to open another outlet at heartland mall but all the shit still count on me. The most he deal with the renovation team but setup is done by me & my team. At this moment I already exhausted and my emotional is not so stable, I easy get angry and no more patience to deal with my surround things. After I setup done with new outlet he give me another “SURPRISE”,he said I always ask for dog (which is before I help him in business & have my daughter) he get me a 2.5 month puppy on the Christmas. I already tell him I have no confident to take care of so many thing but he choose to ignore my word, and he roles in family just sit down watch TV & check on his phone, sleep & shit in the toilet. Not much interactive between him, my daughter & me plus the puppy. And we quarrel a lot for all this and he said I got anger management issue, and to proof him that he is wrong I book the psychology counselling session. After done the counselling session, the psychologist said I have no anger management issue just I overwork and I feel lost and insecure to all his decision.

And my husband also not the kind of sweet talk person, since day 1 we married until now only have 1 Apple Watch as in present gift and if I ask for more he will said he already provide me house, wifi, Netflix & give me a lady boss title. He mean I no need work like last time need punch card and can be more flexible (which is really 24/7 no end kind), And he also said he provide everything so the S$2000 salary is enough for me to spend.But as in wife I know his stingy character so when the outlet no need me, I still will go do part time nurse to get extra income. Now I’m the dilemma should I ask for divorce since my effort is not been appreciated by him and the most important issue is I dunno what kind of surprise he will give me in future.

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18 Y.O CYCLIST KILLED IN YISHUN ACCIDENT WITH BUS, PRONOUNCED DEAD AT THE SCENE

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18 Y.O CYCLIST KILLED IN YISHUN ACCIDENT WITH BUS, PRONOUNCED DEAD AT THE SCENE

On July 12, a tragic accident occurred in Yishun, resulting in the death of an 18-year-old male cyclist. The collision took place at about 5.55pm in the evening and involved a bus and a cyclist at the junction of Yishun Avenue 2 and Yishun Ring Road.

Despite the efforts of the Singapore Civil Defence Force (SCDF) paramedics, the cyclist was pronounced dead at the scene.

Fatal accident

The collision between the bus and the cyclist took place at the junction of Yishun Avenue 2 and Yishun Ring Road. The police were alerted to the incident at 5:55 pm on July 12.

Tragically, the 18-year-old male cyclist sustained fatal injuries. Despite the prompt response by SCDF paramedics, they were unable to save his life.

Following the accident, a 37-year-old male bus driver was arrested by the police for careless driving causing death and investigations are currently ongoing.

Photographs of the accident scene circulated online and on messaging applications, showing the presence of SCDF and police personnel.

A mangled bicycle was seen lying in the middle of the road beside where the cyclist’s body was lying.

Umbrellas, tents, and blue cloth were utilized to shield the scene from public view and aid in the investigation process. One photograph captured the victim lying on the road behind the bus, highlighting the severity of the incident.

Another image showed paramedics attending to a man, believed to be the bus driver, further emphasizing the impact of the accident on both parties involved.

Importance of Road Safety

This tragic accident serves as a stark reminder of the importance of road safety. Cyclists, pedestrians, and motorists all share the responsibility of ensuring safe roads for everyone.

Drivers must exercise caution, adhere to traffic rules, and remain attentive at all times. Similarly, cyclists should prioritize their safety by following road regulations and wearing appropriate protective gear.

DRUNK MAN ARRESTED AFTER BEATING UP TAXI DRIVER IN PUNGGOL

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DRUNK MAN ARRESTED AFTER BEATING UP TAXI DRIVER IN PUNGGOL

In the early hours of Saturday morning (July 8), a disturbing incident unfolded near Block 256 Sumang Walk, Punggol, when a 26-year-old man was arrested after assaulting a taxi driver over a fare dispute. The altercation, which began as a squabble between the cabby and his passenger, quickly escalated into a physical confrontation, leaving the taxi driver injured and in need of medical attention. The local news outlet, Shin Min Daily News, reported the details of this distressing incident.

The man shout: I GOT FLIGHT TOMORROW

According to witnesses, the incident took place during the early hours of Saturday morning at a drop-off point near Block 256 Sumang Walk. The passenger, who was later discovered to be intoxicated, became embroiled in a heated argument with the taxi driver over the fare. As tensions mounted, the situation turned violent, with the passenger resorting to physical assault. Witnesses recount seeing the passenger throwing a punch at the taxi driver, causing him to fall to the ground. The severity of the taxi driver’s injuries was evident, as he appeared disoriented and in considerable pain.

Fortunately, the swift response of the authorities ensured that the assailant was apprehended promptly. The police arrived at the scene just in time to witness the assault and swiftly intervened. The officers worked to subdue the attacker, who resisted arrest and attempted to break free. Despite the assailant’s resistance, the police officers successfully apprehended him, using their training and expertise to bring the situation under control.

Medical personnel were also summoned to provide immediate medical assistance to the injured taxi driver. The severity of the driver’s injuries prompted his conveyance to the hospital for further evaluation and treatment. The assailant, on the other hand, was arrested for drunkenness in public places and is currently assisting the authorities with their investigations. The charges also include voluntarily causing hurt, reflecting the seriousness of the assault.

As of now, the investigations into this incident are ongoing.

WOMAN WISHES SHE NEVER HAD HER CHILD, SICK & TIRED OF TAKING CARE OF SON

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WOMAN WISHES SHE NEVER HAD HER CHILD, SICK & TIRED OF TAKING CARE OF SON

A mother shared how she wishes she never had a child because she is getting sick and tired of taking care of the kid.

Here is the story:

“Hi parents,

Have ever had thoughts where you wished you never had a child. Or wished that your kid goes away with someone else to take care of them? Like forever?

I’ve been feeling overwhelmed and I get very irritated, angry and frustrated. My husband helps a lot in taking care of the household and kid while inside of me just wanna cry frequently.

Sometimes I can be positive and happy when my child is at home. But I drag the feeling of picking my son back home.

I’m always triggered by several things like nonstop playing during meal times, taking hours to eat then refusal to put books and toys back to the original spots.

And the most triggers I have are relatively new toys where some parts are deliberately misplaced and forgotten by my child when I already asked that it’s placed back to the original place.

I’ve bought many of the books and toys and it eeks me that within a matter of mins, some parts get thrown around and it’s a junkyard every night.

Husband helps to keep but I’ve told him not to do it alone. It has to be with the child together so he learns to do it habitually.

And then my son would refuse to bathe, brush teeth, go pee, get changed etc.

The mornings are my super angry moments daily when I try to prepare my son for school. He would play immediately once awake or watch TV with his grandma.

Then nagging to brush teeth is like me having to threaten to let his teeth rot or no breakfast if there’s not enough time.

I even meanly let him go to school without breakfast and he’s ok. ????????????????????????

I feel such a horrible parent and I’ve tried from gentle parenting to tiger parents and my son just doesn’t respond or do as told.

I wished I could just run away from there and back to the times where there’s only my husband and I. I’m so sick of tired of feeling this way. ????????????”

Editor’s note: Save this post and show it to your son when he grows up.

WOMAN DROVE AGAINST TRAFFIC & CRASHES HEAD-ON WITH TAXI, THEN FLEES THE SCENE @ POTONG PASIR

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WOMAN DROVE AGAINST TRAFFIC & CRASHES HEAD-ON WITH TAXI, THEN FLEES THE SCENE @ POTONG PASIR

In a recent incident along Potong Pasir Avenue 1, a female SUV driver was involved in a head-on collision with a taxi after driving against the flow of traffic.

Shockingly, she allegedly fled the accident scene without exchanging details with the taxi driver. The incident, which occurred around midnight at about 12.30am on July 12, was captured by an onlooker and shared on the Facebook page SGRV Admin.

They also added that the woman appeared to be “intoxicated based on her verbal response” and that she “didn’t know she (was) driving (the) wrong way”.

The Accident

The collision took place when the female SUV driver who was driving what appeared to be a Nissan Qashqai at the time of the accident (according to the video’s caption), reportedly driving against the flow of traffic, collided head-to-head with the taxi.

The onlooker’s video footage and accompanying caption shed light on the events that unfolded during the incident.

The video shows the female driver allegedly fleeing the scene approximately five minutes after the collision, without exchanging details with the taxi driver.

The traffic police and ambulance had not yet arrived when she made her escape.

The taxi driver, who was wearing a blue shirt, can be seen in the video pointing at the SUV, seemingly trying to prevent the female driver from fleeing.

Despite his efforts, the female driver continued with her escape and disappeared from the video after making a left turn at the junction.

Police Involvement and Investigation

Following the incident, the taxi driver promptly lodged a police report. The Singapore Police Force confirmed the hit-and-run case involving a car and a taxi along Potong Pasir Avenue 1 towards Wan Tho Avenue on July 12 at 12:37 am.

The 63-year-old male taxi driver was taken to the hospital conscious for further medical attention. The police are currently conducting investigations to identify the female SUV driver and gather more information about the incident.

GIRL NOT HAPPY WITH NEW BF BECAUSE HIS “BIRD” IS THE SIZE OF HER PINKY

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GIRL NOT HAPPY WITH NEW BF BECAUSE HIS “BIRD” IS THE SIZE OF HER PINKY

A netizen shared how she finally met a guy that she likes but after sleeping with him, she found out that his manhood was smaller than she expected.

Here is the story:

“I am a 176cm tall girl. It was really tough meeting sg guys whom are willing to accept someone of my height and I want to keep it this way to go for sg guys since I still want to keep myself real instead of faking myself with fake english and all. Eww.

So recently, I fell in love with this guy I met online few months ago, we starting meeting up, do some dating & couple things together.

He is really smart, good career, well built, and heads to yoga & gym along with me. But the height was an issue to him because he is a 168cm.

He also told me that he belong to the “smaller side”. I told him it is fine, I will still treat him like a king, my own king.

I understand from my sisters that girls need to constantly rub guy’s ego, so I really tried everything to do that.

But, last night on New Year was a shocker to me. We did the deed and I am shocked that his thing is the size of my pinky finger!! Literally 3cm when hard & its not even thick at all.

Although my pool of sg guys wasn’t a lot, but from the data i gathered together with my sisters, sg guys have a max of up to 15cm.

But why am I seeing this.

So I want to ask the ladies here, what will you do if you face this? Should I break up with him?”

Editor’s note: You might be looser than a size 40 baggy pants on a 3-year-old kid, what are you on about, female Shaq?

MAN QUITS TOXIC JOB BECAUSE SALARY LOW, COMPANY IMMEDIATELY OFFER HIM HIGHER PAY BUT TOO LATE

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MAN QUITS TOXIC JOB BECAUSE SALARY LOW, COMPANY IMMEDIATELY OFFER HIM HIGHER PAY BUT TOO LATE

Is there a way to put in an honest (bad) review of a company?

Finally, I’m going to leave this place. Threw letter days ago, rejected their counter-offer. Its funny and disgusting that the moment you throw letter, suddenly they can give immediate increment and immediate promotion.

Whilst pull factor is definitely very attractive, there are lots of push factors too, such as unhappiness over pay (why is it that companies here are more willing to pay newcomers more rather than give proper increments to existing people?), growing frustrations, impression that management had failed to take care of their own department’s interests, and burnout.

Common understanding is that we should avoid burning bridges and avoid giving bad reviews during exit interview, because Singapore is too small. But is there a way that I can put in honest reviews of the company?

Netizens’ comments

  1. wait a few months then post on glassdoor. they won’t know it’s you by then.
  2. this happens more than you know. even in big corporations.
    anyway putting in a negative glassdoor review is what i did but try to balance it with some positives to sound more credible
  3. This is the working culture in Singapore unfortunately. S-t increment on existing staff that is experienced, yet they willing to pay higher for new staff. Even the fresh grad expected to be paid 3 to 4k now and I can assure you that there are many people with 10 years experience that is lower than that. It is funny that in corrupted country like Malaysia, Thailand or Indonesia they respect loyalty more than anything else but in Singapore your loyalty to the company is worthless.
  4. did you just start working? companies especially smes will always try their best to cut costs and maximise profits thus they wont give increments so easily. people know this and jop hop as a means to get more significant pay increases over time. dont need to take it so personally.
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