Burnout

I’m working in big company, drawing decent annual pay of 150k pa but I’m burnout. Everyday from 9am to 9pm is normal there are days I need to work past 12am to 2am. I can be on call with boss at 3am discussing work.

Recently, I tender without having any new job. My friend said I’m impulsive but I felt mentally drained.

Those management peers, take turn to talk to me asking me to reconsider my decision.

Of course there are some friends of mine thinking I’m playing trump card to get promotion or higher pay increment.

I am just purely tired. I just end work on Sunday night typing this at 1.30am. Just because I need to prepare for presentation that change timing from late afternoon to early morning, so need to work on Sunday night.

Should I just leave? Or should I retract my resignation and hang in there till I found something? Or just work till is suddenly go mental hospital?

Here are what netizens think:

• Talk to ur boss and HR about improving your workload and boundaries abt work after hours. If they dun offer any concrete steps to help u, then quit. Steps include hiring new colleague to help in your workload, pay increments and existing personnel taking over some of ur work. But realistically, they might find they hv a problem with why u didn’t step up to the work challenges. So be prepared for tat.

• perhaps the problem is the boss… i did face 2 inconsidered bosses in my working life which only 阎罗王can help them… one of them even threw a pen on my female colleague which he hired during work discussion!

• I had a friend who died in office after tremendous amount of stress, leaving his wife & 2 children (1 of them is autistic). Take a break….no point sacrificing health for money.

I had with a friend of mine. He’s a 40-year-old man who recently got drunk and spent all his money overseas. He then called his mom for help. It was one of those situations that just shows how much of a man-child he is, and why he has so much trouble attracting women.

My friend is an interesting case.

Mama boy

He’s always been a bit of a mommy’s boy, but it’s never been as bad as it is now. He’s always been extremely close with his mother and has a tendency to rely on her for his every need. This is especially true when it comes to money.

My friend has always been a bit of a spendthrift, but lately, it’s gotten out of control. He recently got drunk at a party and ended up spending all of his money on a trip overseas. It was a foolish decision and one that he should have seen coming. He thought he could just rely on his mom to bail him out.

After he spent all of his money, he called his mom to ask for help. She was understandably upset, but she still sent him the money he needed to get back home. It was an act of unconditional love, but it also showed how much of a man-child my friend is.

He’s always had trouble attracting women and this incident certainly didn’t help matters. Women want a man who is independent and responsible, not someone who needs his mommy to bail him out every time he makes a bad decision.

Initially he called me, but i said I did not have any spare money to help him.

He needs to learn to make decisions for himself and not rely on his mother to bail him out. He needs to be more independent and responsible if he wants to attract a woman.

My friend is still a man-child and a mommy’s boy, but I’m hopeful that he can learn to be more responsible and independent. If he can do that, then he might just be able to attract the woman of his dreams. It’s going to take time, but I’m sure he can do it if he puts in the effort.

It all started when I was a little boy. My mom and dad bought me a doll, and I instantly fell in love with it.

I still remember the feeling of joy that filled my heart when I got to hold it in my arms. From then on I was hooked. I started collecting dolls, and I just couldn’t get enough of them.

As the years went by, my collection of dolls grew. I was already in my teenage years when I had to face the reality that my love for dolls was not something that was accepted by my peers. I was often embarrassed to tell people about my hobby, and most of them laughed at me when I did. I was even more embarrassed when I started to get a reputation for being a “weirdo” because of my love for dolls.

I was in my early twenties when I finally had the courage to tell a girl that I liked her.

I was nervous and scared, but I was determined to take that risk. I was so excited when I told her that I liked her, but my excitement quickly turned to disappointment when she started to laugh at me. She told me that she couldn’t date someone who had such an odd hobby.

That was a turning point for me. I was so discouraged and embarrassed that I stopped talking to other people about my love for dolls. I was convinced that it was the main reason why I couldn’t get a girlfriend. I was sure that I was doomed to be alone for the rest of my life.

Things changed when I decided to open up to a few close friends about my hobby. Instead of laughing at me, they were understanding and supportive. They told me that my love for dolls was nothing to be ashamed of, and that I shouldn’t let it hold me back from finding someone to love. They encouraged me to be proud of my hobby and to not be afraid to talk about it.

Taking their advice, I slowly started to open up about my love for dolls. I started talking to more people about it and even posted pictures of my collection online. I was surprised by the positive responses I got from people. Many of them told me that my hobby was unique and cool, and that they were impressed by my passion for it.

With the support of my friends, I slowly started to gain the confidence to talk about my hobby and even to start dating. I was surprised to find out that a lot of girls were actually interested in me and my hobby. It turned out that my love for dolls was actually a plus for me. I was finally able to find someone who appreciated me for who I was and what I did.

My love for dolls has certainly been a challenge for me, but it has also been a blessing. I am now in a healthy and happy relationship, and I couldn’t be more grateful. Despite all the jokes and teasing I had to endure, my love for dolls has actually helped me find someone to love.

My girlfriend and I had been arguing for what seemed like hours. We had both said things that we couldn’t take back, and things were really starting to heat up. We were both frustrated and angry, and neither of us was willing to back down.

Then, out of nowhere, she said something that really threw me for a loop:

she told me that the only way I could make things right was to apologize by kneeling.

At first, I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. I had never heard of such a thing. I thought it was ridiculous and I couldn’t understand how she could expect me to do something like that.

But then I realized that she was serious. She wanted me to kneel down and apologize for the things I had said.

I had two choices: comply or stand my ground. I had to make a decision quickly because the situation was getting more and more heated.

In the end, I chose to stand my ground. I looked her in the eyes and said, “If you were a guy, I would have slapped you already.”

I could tell that my response shocked her. She had expected me to be a pushover and just do as she said. But I had made it clear that I wasn’t about to do something that I thought was ridiculous.

We stared at each other for what felt like an eternity before she finally backed down. She realized that I wasn’t going to budge and she apologized for even suggesting it in the first place.

We were both relieved that the situation had been diffused. We talked things out and eventually made up. And, although it was a difficult situation, I’m glad that I stood my ground and didn’t apologize by kneeling.

It’s a lesson that I will never forget:

when someone is trying to manipulate you, don’t let them. Stand up for yourself and do what you think is right. Don’t be afraid to say no when you know that something doesn’t feel right.

It’s important to remember that relationships are a two-way street. If one person is trying to take advantage of the other, it’s not healthy. It’s not a sign of a healthy relationship.

By standing my ground, I was able to show my girlfriend that I wasn’t going to be taken advantage of. I showed her that I respected myself and wasn’t going to be controlled by her.

It was a difficult situation, but I’m glad that I stuck to my guns and didn’t apologize by kneeling. It showed her that I respected myself and that I wasn’t going to let her push me around. That’s a lesson that I will never forget.