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GUY LOVES HIS JOB SO MUCH, AFTER WORK STILL LEARNING HOW TO BECOME BETTER AT IT

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Those who genuinely like their jobs and look forward to going to work, what do you do?

I believe many people here just view their jobs as a way to earn money and put food on the table. I rmb some time back, there were some articles saying singapore is full of zombie employees.

So it is always refreshing to hear of someone who genuinely enjoy their job.

My cousin is one. He is a software engineer and programming and coding is in his blood. In fact he started learning at 12.

He loves his job so much that he’d use his time after work and on weekends to learn new stuff on it and he could solve many problems that others can’t. He’s doing very well and was promoted to senior positions well ahead of his peers.

People who truly love their jobs (other than for the salary and benefits), what do you do and why?

Netizens’ comments

  1. I work at a very boring office desk bound job but I love it.
    This is because I am an introvert and the nature of my job is such that I do not need to interact with anyone. I work alone. I have lunch alone. I do everything alone. At most, I may have to attend Zoom meeting once in a while and I don’t even need to turn on the camera – which is great!
  2. I used to work in a hardware tech company doing data analytics and I loved it. Didnt have Monday blues for 3 years at least. Was such a joy to go to work everyday! But i have since left after 5 years due to certain factors.. and in my current co, im dreading it even tho its similar scope. Haha
  3. I’m an Assisstant Professor and I run a Master course. My course is delivered online and after hours, for part time students. So my dept has agreed to allow me to work from home. They bought a wide screen monitor for me and I only go to campus when I have in-person meetings (1-2 times a week).
    I love teaching and learning more about the subject I teach. I love the discussions and facilitating learning between my students and experts in the field. I love the ability to network without needing to leave home and above all I love the flexibility my job offers. If I am not teaching, I can bring my laptop anywhere and work. i have young children so sometimes I can work around their needs. I can bring my wife out for meals whenever she is not working and there is no need for me to apply for time off cause I can simply work more to make up the hours.
    The drawback is the admin work involved. Running a master course without much admin help can get rather tiresome. But I guess the perks outweigh the negatives. I love my job and won’t trade it with what I’ve done before.
  4. Doing audio for live events and live recordings. small company of 5. Basically already knew 3 of them including my boss so we’re all like friends working tgt. Good work culture too with each dept helping out so everyone heads home earlier too.
  5. In tech wfh 4-6 hours a day, reading documentations included. Just laying on my back reading and do some reports. Pay’s not great but im done with rat race.

WOMAN DUMPS BF BECAUSE HIS MUM KEEPS STEALING HER CLOTHES & WEARING THEM

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Breaking up with my boyfriend because his mother was stealing my clothing

I (26f) live with my bf (27m) near his mother. We’ve been living together for almost a year, and our lease is up next month. I am NOT re-signing.

From the very get go, this whole living situation has been nothing less than horrific and I cannot wait to get the hell out.

My bf and his mother are very very co-dependent, the first couple of months were littered with surprise visits, and calls/FaceTiming around the clock.

She is a very dominant human being. And then mid-point of us living there, he gave her a key.

I work from home but my bf has to go in office, so I was ALWAYS home alone with her whenever she decided to make herself at home. I have to spend time during work hosting her and it’s tiring when it’s so often and the apartment is small.

She comes to clean our apartment, make dinner, pack lunches, laundry – MY LAUNDRY. I don’t want anyone seeing my underwear, but maybe that’s just me.

Sometimes she’ll come over to just read or watch television to wait for my bf to come home.

I was until late teetering on the “should I end this” thought, but this recent incident is my last straw. For months I have noticed that some of my favorite clothes go missing and then reappear in my closet.

Never thought to much on it since I’d always find them again, but I know where they’ve been going now! His mother changed her profile photo on Facebook and low and behold, she’s wearing my jacket. How do I know? Because I made it.

When I brought this up to him, he told me it wasn’t a big deal, it’s his mom, so I can trust her with my stuff. When I tried bringing it up to his mother, she gaslit me. She said she’s always asked to borrow my stuff and that “maybe” I just wasn’t paying attention to her when she asked.

I am officially fed up. I will not live my life consumed with her constant presence, and I will not marry a man who basically still dependent on his mum.

When he comes home from work today, I am ending things. I already know it’s going to be biggest dodged bullet of my life.

STAFF SENT HOME TO CHANGE CAUSE BOSS DON’T LIKE HIS CLOTHES, RETURNED WITH 2-WEEK NOTICE

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My manager demanded I go home to change outfit. Is shocked when I come back with 2 week notice

My (M31) job had just started 6 months before the pandemic. Once covid hit we were all working from home which for me was a new (sometime challenging) but exciting experience.

I wouldn’t get home till 7pm so working from home made a major difference to how much time I had to spend with my family. This went on for 2 years until my job demanded we all come back into the office, which sucked.

During this time my old manager was very lenient and allowed us to keep working from home a couple days a week. This all changed when she was demoted and new manager wouldn’t allow anyone to work from home, unless of course we caught covid. Which I sadly did.

2 years of never catching it and it was all ruined in just 6 weeks when they called us back. Now on to the story.

My new manager was a bossy angry harasser of a woman and demanded things that just didn’t feel right. She sent multiple people home because of some of the things they wore (this was a call centre job and the dress code was essentially no football tops or revealing clothing which was fine).

The manager took this a step further and sent anyone wearing what she didn’t like home. This included a pregant colleague who had to wear leggings for comfort and my old manager for also wearing legging due to “cramps”.

Then came my turn as she didn’t like the way I dressed even though I dressed the same way for 3 months. she demanded I go home, change then come back.

I explained that unlike most of the people working there I stay very far away. She didnt care. I offered, couldn’t i just stay till the end of the day then change for next day? Rejected.

Couldn’t just go home and work from home this one day? Rejected.

Oh and I should mention that she said I would have to work those hours back as well.

I was forced to leave work and spent the next hour on the bus being fuming. Luckily I had stuff to do on the bus and began rage applying out of sheer spite.

Surprisingly I got a ping for a job when I can work from home permanently and was able to set up an interview.

On my way back from the office I stopped by a shop and bought an envelope and paper and wrote a quick 2 weeks notice.

When I got back into the office I calmly walked up to managers desk, advised her that what she just made me do was very upsetting and handed my 2 weeks notice.

Look was priceless but only lasted a second before she pulled me into a meeting with 2 other managers.

It was here they are suddenly all apologetic and trying to get me to stay. Even offered to let me work from home again.

I politely declined as this was too little too late. (Reason why they wanted me to stay so badly is if enough colleagues quit before and certain date, the managers lose their bonus).

Needless to say i turned down their offers and they got rid of me after just 1 week because I didn’t comply with every little thing .

I’m now at my new job for 6 months now. Love working from home. And they gave me my own laptop ain’t order to work from home.

GUY GAMBLED AWAY HIS SAVINGS THEN LOST HIS JOB, NOW JOBLESS & BROKE & SCARED

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I gambled (stocks) my savings away right before losing my job and am anxious ashamed and scared.

I’m a 26 y/o (m) and I had a rough year where everything seemed to go wrong. Things got stolen, illness in the family and bad but not the worst is probably my contract ending at work.

Now I had some good money saved up after working hard for a while, nothing substantial but it did make me proud somehow and it gave me a real sense of safety and security.

But it didn’t give me enough of a secure feel in the sense that I could bridge a gap between jobs so I made the biggest mistake of my life and put more into the stock market as friends had been doing well and I had in the past too.

Well it all obviously went to s-t. In the most traumatizing way. I’d add a couple hundred bucks every few days to a losing position just to survive the swing.

My friends birthdays neared and I canceled it because I was laying in bed after looking at my bank account, utterly drained in a greed filled frenzy of about 1-2 months.

Every bad thing in my life came together and led up to that critical point of self-destruct. Thinking I deserved to win. I’d already been down in all other aspects in life, surely this had to be a winner. What a self-centered way to think.

In hindsight it was kind of just doomed to begin with. I really did feel important behind my computer watching my money burn lol, maybe that’s what kept me going too long.

I’m now about a month away from that worst point. I have some sense of safety but my pride is gone, basically my savings are gone, I lost a job I once loved and honestly, I’ve just been in a pretty emotionless state this past week.

I’m not going to be doing this again, after serious consideration of what that means for the future but I just don’t trust myself enough to even try. But where do I go from here? I feel frozen.

I know there’s nothing to really reply to something like this where the mistakes are obvious and I created the whole issue but maybe someone will recognize themselves and not feel alone. Thanks.

GOJEK DRIVER WHO DRIVE UNTIL END UP INSIDE CONDO SWIMMING POOL @ BUKIT PANJANG, CHARGED

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A Singaporean Gojek driver who previously went viral for driving his car into a swimming pool at the Hillside Condominium back in February, has since been charged on 28 June for committing a rash act and endangering life while operating machinery.

The driver, 67-year-old Chean Tuck Heng, is set to return to court on 8 August where he is intending to plead guilty, and he will also not be engaging a lawyer.

Recap

On 28 February 2023 at about 9.10pm, a Gojek driver ended up driving into a swimming pool at a condominium in Bukit Timah after making a wrong turn while finding his way in the rain.

A resident who lives in the condominium, Luke, witnessed the car “going for a swim” and posted a video of it on TikTok, showing the car partially submerged in the pool.

He said that the driver of the white Honda was a PHV driver who was dropping off a passenger at the condominium at the time, at about 9pm.

It was raining heavily at the time and visibility was low.

Luke said that it all started when the passenger allegedly told the driver to turn into a path that was only meant for pedestrians, and the path led to the swimming pool.

The route was only meant for pedestrians and not vehicles, and a security guard told the driver to reverse his car out of there.

The driver then proceeded to perform a three-point turn in order to leave the path, managing to turn his car onto a grass patch and somehow managed to avoid hitting the poolside chairs and tables.

However, things then took a turn for the worst when he was at the final stage of his three-point turn but he accidentally stepped on the gas, driving straight into the swimming pool.

He then tried to reverse his car out of the swimming pool but couldn’t do so because the front tyres had already gotten stuck on the stairs inside the water.

The car was eventually pulled out of the pool by a tow truck at about midnight, and the driver escaped unharmed.

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The Hillside said in a statement that the driver who drove into their swimming pool was a Gojek driver and that they are seeking legal advice for the damage caused.

The driver had reportedly hit some potted plants as well.

The Hillside said that they have reached out to Gojek regarding the claim for property damage, although it is unclear how badly the pool was damaged from the incident.

They investigated the incident and found out that the passenger was a woman who was visiting her family living in the condominium.

The management said in their statement that the driver had initially driven through the main entrance of the condominium before turning right into a dead end.

Their CCTV footage showed that the car remained stationary before moving into a narrow pathway that was meant for pedestrians only, leading towards the clubhouse beside the swimming pool.

The driver drove on the pedestrian path before coming to a stop at the clubhouse.

The condominium alleged that the driver was approached by a security guard, who told him to reverse his car, but he purportedly drove forwards instead, before turning right and ending up inside the pool.

The driver then alighted from his submerged car and told the guard that he was a Gojek driver.

Gojek said that they are looking into the case and are speaking to the customer and the driver to resolve the issue and take action.

They emphasized their desire to provide a “safe and positive” experience for everyone.

ANG MOH CYCLIST RUNS OVER WOMAN & TODDLER @ EAST COAST THEN GOES MIA

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A woman and her 2-year-old daughter were run over by a cyclist along East Coast Park on 25 June, resulting in the woman suffering a fractured tailbone while the toddler suffered abrasions all over her body.

The woman’s husband then took to Facebook to appeal for witnesses, saying that the cyclist had become uncontactable after the accident, with his phone numbers being turned off and invalid.

Here is what he said

Accident between cyclist (male Caucasian in late teens to 20s) and pedestrians (woman and 2-year-old child) at East Coast Park shared path beside East Coast Lagoon Food Village on 25 June 2023 at 3pm.

Appeal for witnesses and information on culprit’s identity/whereabouts.

*Admin, please delete if post is deemed inappropriate*

On 25 June 2023 (Sunday), my family (wife, 4-year old son, and 2-year old daughter) and I were taking a stroll at East Coast Park on the shared path at the extreme left outside East Coast Lagoon Food Village. This was towards the direction of the Singapore Wake Park. At about 3pm, a male cyclist on a road bike suddenly crashed into my family from the back at high speed. The impact caused my wife and daughter to be injured. My wife fell backwards and hit her head and back on the ground, while my young daughter fell face front. Both were hospitalised.

The culprit is a Caucasian and likely to be in his 20s with blond hair with a height of about 1.75 to 1.8m. He identified himself to be a British and mentioned that his name was “George”. The culprit apologised profusely and said that the injuries wouldn’t be too serious. I requested his contact number as I told him that he needed to be responsible for the matter. He gave me two numbers – one being a local number (88736715), while the other being a UK number (+44757777262). He appeared sincere in wanting to take responsibility. He even corrected me when I keyed in his UK number incorrectly which made the situation even more convincing. I trusted him (which was a mistake) as my focus back then was to quickly rush my family to the hospital for medical attention.

After checking my family into a nearby hospital – Parkway East Hospital, I attempted to contact George. However, his local number is never turned on, while his UK number is invalid. I have reported the accident to the police as this involved bodily injuries. The police established that this is a case of rash act / negligence and is a criminal offence. My wife has a fracture in her tailbone, while my daughter has abrasions all around her body including her face. Being a 2-year old child, my daughter has also been badly traumatised with a change in her behaviour – more withdrawn and easily irritable. Investigations are underway.

The purpose of my post is twofold: –

1) If you have witnessed the accident and know the identity and/or whereabouts of the culprit, please PM me or contact me on *phone number redacted*. Your identity will be kept strictly confidential. The culprit was cycling on a roadbike with a partner on another bike. Both are Caucasians in their late teens to 20s. Both were topless and wearing dark coloured shorts. The culprit suffered some abrasions to his limbs because of the accident. Your help is most appreciated as this would expedite investigations.

2) If you are the culprit, man up and take responsibility for your actions. Giving false information, especially after you have caused harm to a lady and a child? You ought to be ashamed of yourself. The police have access to CCTVs around the park. You have the choice of voluntarily surrendering yourself and sleeping in peace at night. Otherwise, be prepared for embarrassment if you get arrested at your residence, workplace, school, immigration checkpoint (if you decide to flee), etc.

Source: Andrew Foo on SG PCN Cyclist Facebook

MUM LEFT TODDLER ALONE FOR 10 DAYS TO GO HOLIDAY, CAME BACK & FOUND GIRL DEAD

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A mother in Cleveland, Ohio has been indicted on murder charges after allegedly leaving her 16-month-old daughter alone for over a week while she went on vacation.

Kristel Candelario, a 31-year-old woman, made the shocking decision to leave her 16-month-old infant daughter home alone while embarking on a 10-day vacation, according to CBS News.

She departed from Cleveland and traveled to Detroit, Michigan, and Puerto Rico, leaving her child unattended.

Upon her return from the vacation, Candelario found her 16-month-old daughter unresponsive. Recognizing the gravity of the situation, she immediately called 911.

Authorities discovered the child in a distressing state, lying in a play-pen with dirty blankets and a soiled liner covered in urine and faeces.

Tragically, the child was severely dehydrated at the time of her death, underscoring the neglect and suffering she endured during her mother’s absence, according to WKYC.

Law enforcement swiftly took action, arresting Kristel Candelario on June 16. Subsequently, a grand jury indicted her on charges of aggravated murder, two counts of murder, felonious assault, and endangering children.

The Cuyahoga County Medical Examiner’s Office investigations revealed that the child suffered no signs of trauma, and had died after being left alone and unattended for 10 days, according to NBC News.

Her neighbors shared that Candelario had previously asked them to care for her daughter before in the past, and didn’t know why this time she didn’t ask them for help again.

A neighbour described the deceased child as being amazing and really adorable and that she missed the baby a lot, adding that she didn’t deserve what happened to her.

The prosecutor’s office emphasized the enormity of the tragedy and the responsibility parents have to protect and care for their children.

The shocking circumstances surrounding the child’s last days, alone and suffering, have prompted a strong commitment to seeking justice on her behalf.

Kristel Candelario’s bond has been set at US$1 million, and a preliminary hearing into her case has been set for Wednesday.

50 Y.O S’PORE MAN RAPED 10 Y.O STEP-DAUGHTER AFTER WIFE WENT TO PRISON, JAILED

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A 50-year-old man was sentenced to 18 years in jail on Tuesday (27 June) for assaulting and raping his 10-year-old stepdaughter, he had pleaded guilty to a count of rape and another count of assault by penetration, with 3 other charges being considered during his sentencing.

The abhorrent acts continued even after his wife was released from prison, as he took advantage of the child while her mother was asleep.

The man, whose identity remains undisclosed for legal reasons, married the victim’s mother in Batam before the family relocated to a flat in Singapore in September 2017.

Tragically, just weeks after their move, the victim’s mother was sentenced to a 14-week jail term, the reasons for which were not revealed in court documents. It was during this vulnerable period that the offender began his heinous acts against his stepdaughter.

Taking advantage of the absence of the victim’s mother, the 50-year-old man initiated his assault of his 10-year-old stepdaughter. When the young girl resisted both physically and verbally, he threatened her with further acts of violence if she revealed what he did to anyone.

Despite her attempts to fend him off, she was overpowered by the man, who was larger and stronger than her, leading to her enduring unimaginable pain and suffering.

The assault persisted from 2017 to 2020, even after the victim’s mother returned home. Frightened by her stepfather’s threats, the victim remained silent, trapped in a cycle of fear and manipulation. Her stepfather’s actions robbed her of her innocence, leaving her emotionally scarred and deeply traumatized.

The crimes came to light in October 2021, when an unrelated incident prompted the victim’s mother to contact the police. Through investigations into the matter, the offenses were exposed.

Confronted by his wife, the offender initially denied the allegations but eventually confessed. In an attempt to avoid legal repercussions, he offered the victim a monthly sum of S$500 and apologized, pleading with them not to report the crimes to the police.

The victim shared the extent of her suffering during consultations with a doctor at a Child Guidance Clinic.

She disclosed having thoughts of self harm since 2017 and revealed her aversion to the traumatic experiences she endured.

Recurrent flashbacks, anxiety, and hyperawareness of men in public spaces plagued her. The victim’s emotional well-being had been shattered, and she carried feelings of anger for not disclosing what happened to her earlier.

PRC WOMAN SMASHED S’PORE EX-BF’S CAR & HOUSE WITH GOLF CLUB, JAILED 2 WEEKS

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A 36-year-old Chinese national, Zhou Dani, had been involved in a relationship with her Singaporean lover for over four years. Despite knowing that he was married and had a child, Zhou believed that he would ultimately choose to settle down with her.

However, in late 2020, she discovered that he had been seeing another woman, which caused their relationship to deteriorate further. By August 2021, her lover expressed his desire to end the affair.

In an attempt to salvage their relationship, Zhou Dani decided to pay a visit to her lover’s house in September 2021. She hoped to discuss the two children she claimed to have had with him during their affair.

Zhou demanded through WhatsApp for him to come out of his house, but he refused. Determined to be heard, Zhou repeatedly pressed the doorbell, drawing the attention of his family members.

As Zhou’s ex-lover remained inside the house, urging her not to cause a disturbance, she climbed over the metal gate of the property. Once inside, she sent him a close-up photograph of his car and main door, along with threatening messages. She vowed to “crush” his car and even threatened harm to his mother if he did not comply.

In a fit of rage, Zhou grabbed one of his golf clubs and proceeded to smash his car’s body, windows, and door. Unfortunately, the golf club itself was destroyed during the act.

During Zhou’s destructive rampage, her ex-lover contacted the police, referring to her as a “lady stalker” who had invaded his home.

When the authorities arrived at the scene, Zhou was still in the process of damaging her ex-lover’s house. However, she ceased her destructive actions upon the police’s orders and was subsequently arrested.

It is worth noting that Zhou admitted to consuming alcohol before the incident.

Following the incident, Zhou Dani was charged with mischief, criminal trespass, and criminal intimidation. After pleading guilty to two of the charges and with the third charge taken into consideration, she was sentenced to two weeks’ imprisonment. Additionally, she was ordered to compensate her ex-lover for the damages caused.

The damages resulting from Zhou’s violent outburst were substantial. The estimated cost of repairs amounted to approximately S$18,361.67. This included the expenses for repairing the car, replacing the house window, and the value of the broken golf club.

During the legal proceedings, Zhou Dani’s mental health came under scrutiny. A private psychiatrist diagnosed her with adjustment disorder, which prompted the court to order a Mandatory Treatment Order (MTO) Suitability Report.

However, a psychiatrist from the Institute of Mental Health (IMH) opined that Zhou was unsuitable for MTO. The IMH psychiatrist emphasized that Zhou’s actions were more influenced by alcohol intoxication than her adjustment disorder.

Zhou Dani has filed an appeal against her sentence and the compensation order. At present, she is out on bail pending the outcome of her appeal.

HOPELESS VAN DRIVER HITS 3 CARS WHILE TRYING TO PARK @ CLEMENTI CARPARK

A van driver was seen in a video on Facebook driving against traffic flow at a multi-storey carpark in Clementi and hitting 3 cars will trying to park the vehicle.

The incident took place on 24 June at about 11.10pm, at a multi-storey carpark at Block 440 Clementi Avenue 3.

The video starts with the white van making a right turn into the car park. However, what becomes immediately apparent is that the van is driving against the flow of traffic, as indicated by the road markings.

Ignoring the designated direction, the van abruptly swerves to the left and crashes into a parked car, forcing it to come to an immediate stop.

The driver, dressed in black, steps out of the van to assess the damage caused by the collision. After a brief inspection, the driver returns to the vehicle and reverses it, adding to the chaotic scene.

In the subsequent sequence, the white van attempts to reverse into a parking space beside a red car. Unfortunately, instead of successfully parking, the van collides with the red car during the maneuver.

The van’s passenger emerges from the vehicle to examine the extent of the damage caused by the collision. After a cursory inspection, the passenger returns to the van, and the journey continues.

At this point, a black car approaches the stationary white van from the front, honking its horn to signal the obstruction. The van then moves to the right to allow the black car to pass, pulling into a parking space facing the front. However, the van again reverses into the middle of the lane and pauses momentarily.

In an act that hints at frustration or resignation, the driver raises a hand to their head. Without further ado, the van reverses once more, this time colliding with a grey car.

For the third time, one of the van’s occupants alights from the vehicle to inspect the newly damaged car. It is once again the driver who takes on this responsibility.

Meanwhile, another person emerges from the white van, adding to the confusion surrounding the incident.

Unfortunately, the video abruptly ends, leaving the subsequent actions of the individuals involved uncertain. It remains unclear whether they left the scene or attempted to park again.