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39 Y.O MAN LIED ABOUT HIS AGE TO HOOK UP WITH 20 Y.O GIRL, WHO FOUND OUT THE TRUTH

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I’m 20 this year and I have been seeing a guy who is 39 years old for the past six months and when we met he told me he was 31.

We met on a dating app and hit it off immediately. While we are not in a relationship, we agreed early on to be exclusive.

Today I did a name search on Google and I found photos and profiles of him and found out that he is actually 39 and I do not know how to confront him with this info because then I’ll have to explain how I found out.

How do I confront him without it seeming like I was snooping/stalking him?

Netizens’ comments

  • You are blind when you see the ku ku bird, as long the ku ku bird is working does it matter?
  • You have all the right to confirm what he’s been telling you. If he gets mad for it, and accuses you of not trusting him, he would be just changing topic from the actual problem: he lied.
  • You have to decide for yourself if your relationship with him is more important than the fact that he’s been hiding stuff from you. It’s entirely your choice. But as a rule of thumb, if you feel like you can’t discuss a problem with a partner, you should probably move away from them. Your need for truth and stability has to be respected, it shouldn’t have consequences for you, because that’s basically manipulation.
  • Girl, I mean this as kindly as possible, but the fact that this (potentially hurting his feelings and/or him having a bad opinion of you) is your main concern, instead of “how do I dump this creep ASAP” is exactly why he’s seeking out S with women almost 20 years younger than him.
  • Who ask you to think with your cb

WOMAN’S BTO READY IN 2025, CAN’T STAY AT OWN HOME & HUSBAND’S HOME TOO SMALL – HOMELESS

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I’m (28F) posting here (using my husband’s account) in the hopes of seeking some advice on how to continue with my life when everything feels beyond salvation. It’s going to be a long ride, so I hope you’ll bear with me, but I’ll put a TL;DR at the end too.

Housing issues

I’m currently waiting for a BTO (Nov 2020 launch) which is slated to be done mid-2025. Due to space constraints and familial relations, I cannot stay at my house nor my in-laws’ house. I had been shuttling between my house and my in-laws’ house since 2022, but I can no longer stay at my house for reasons I will explain in point 2. My husband’s room is way too small to fit 2 people, and there isn’t enough space for my things on top of his.

My husband and I had been trying to apply for PPHS since our marriage in 2022 but always got rejected, probably since we don’t have kids. But who would want to have a kid when they don’t even have a place to stay?

I do not feel comfortable with the idea of renting from others due to me being a lone female tenant, along with the exorbitant (and imo, unreasonable) rental rates. I don’t earn enough to comfortably rent a place, and I’m trying as much as possible to save for my upcoming BTO.

Mental health

My mental health has been rapidly deteriorating since I started work and became aware of how toxic my parents were.

Being accustomed to their ways, I did not realise their toxicity, and only after talking to my friends and husband did I realise that their behaviour was not normal. Some examples of what my mom does would be: constantly comparing me to her friends’ and relatives’ kids, insulting me whenever we meet strangers (like talking about how I’m so fat and unfashionable to clothes salespeople), putting down all my work grievances as me just being too weak to handle it, and repeatedly invading my private space. My dad has attitude problems which make him very insufferable to be around, like giving all my friends a black face whenever they visit.

I’m an only child, which people always associate with being spoilt. But the truth is, I was independent since I started working right after poly. I never asked my parents for anything, and I paid my uni tuition fees all by myself. My greatest flaw was being at home and having emotions, I suppose.

Anyway, my mom and I had a HUGE fight after I found out she threw out my clothes without my knowledge, which has left me homeless. This was about a month ago.

I’m currently crashing at my friend’s house, and she’s been extremely welcoming and understanding, but I know this is not a solution.

My mom and I are still not on talking terms. Reconciliation does not seem possible at the moment knowing her pride and how fearful and anxious I get at the thought of speaking to her.

After this incident, I instantly sought help from Clarity, but it’ll take them 6 to 8 weeks to get back to me. It’s been 4 weeks since then, and every day has passed with me feeling more and more hollow and hopeless. I have so many thoughts of wanting to off myself just so I don’t have to deal with anything anymore.

There are other smaller things which do not seem grave enough to warrant a whole point by themselves, but all of them are an added stressor as well. To list some of them out briefly, they are: financial strain, job woes, physical health issues, and difficulty maintaining my hobbies.

My mind is running 24/7 from all these worries. I don’t sleep well, and I’m absolutely exhausted. What should I do?

TL;DR – I’m homeless, riddled with problems and waiting for therapy while trying to stay afloat. I can’t see any solution in the near future, and I don’t know what other avenues of help are available.

ABOUT 5,000 RESIDENTS SHOWED UP TO BID FAREWELL TO THARMAN @ TAMAN JURONG CC

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On June 24, a farewell event was held at Taman Jurong Community Club to bid farewell to Senior Minister Tharman Shanmugaratnam, who announced his decision to run for president and consequently had to step down from his political appointments.

About 5,000 residents showed up to bid their farewell to the departing MP.

Tharman has been serving as the Member of Parliament for Taman Jurong since 2001 and has also held the position of anchor minister for Jurong GRC. During the farewell event, Tharman was accompanied by his wife, Jane Yumiko Ittogi.

There were two sessions available, with one morning session at 9am and another in the evening at 4pm, and residents who wanted to join had to register their attendance.

Attendees got the chance to speak with Tharman and his wife at the event, as well as having a photo taken as memorabilia, and there was also a designated corner for residents to write down and convey their well wishes to the departing MP.

Running for president

In the upcoming presidential election, Senior Minister Tharman Shanmugaratnam has announced his candidacy for the presidency, marking his departure from politics after a lengthy 22-year tenure.

Informed PM Lee of his decision

In a letter addressed to Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong on Thursday, Mr. Tharman conveyed his decision to participate in the forthcoming presidential election, along with his intention to retire from politics and relinquish all government positions. Prime Minister Lee, who also serves as the secretary-general of the People’s Action Party, received the letter.

Mr. Tharman outlined his plan to resign from the People’s Action Party and step down from his roles as Senior Minister and Coordinating Minister for Social Policies on July 7, which is approximately one month from the date of his letter. He expressed the need to fulfill his immediate commitments within Singapore and on the international stage while ensuring proper arrangements are in place to serve his constituents in Jurong GRC for the remainder of the electoral term.

PM Lee thanks Tharman for his service

Responding to the letter, Prime Minister Lee accepted Mr. Tharman’s resignation and expressed gratitude for his distinguished service to Singapore.

This announcement follows the decision of the incumbent President Halimah Yacob, who declared on May 29 that she would not seek a second term. As Madam Halimah’s six-year term concludes on September 13, the election must be scheduled before then.

At the age of 66, Mr. Tharman is the first potential candidate to publicly express interest in the presidency. His eligibility is supported by his fulfillment of the public service requirement, as dictated by the law, due to his ministerial positions.

According to the Constitution’s public sector service requirements, presidential candidates must have held office in various capacities, such as minister, chief justice, Speaker, attorney-general, Public Service Commission chairman, auditor-general, accountant-general, or permanent secretary, for a minimum of three years.

Political career

Mr. Tharman was initially elected into Parliament in November 2001 as a representative of Jurong GRC and has since been re-elected four times.

Currently serving as Senior Minister since 2019, Coordinating Minister for Social Policies since 2015, and chairman of the Monetary Authority of Singapore (MAS) since 2011, Mr. Tharman also assumes the role of deputy chairman of the Government of Singapore Investment Corporation (GIC) since 2019 and chairs its Investment Strategies Committee.

His past portfolios include Deputy Prime Minister, Finance Minister, and Education Minister. Prior to his political career, he spent a significant portion of his professional life at the MAS.

On an international level, Mr. Tharman has served as chairman of the Group of Thirty, an independent global council comprised of influential economic and financial policymakers, since January 2017. Additionally, since April 2017, he has chaired the G20 Eminent Persons Group on Global Financial Governance, overseeing the review of multilateral financial institutions.

Images source: Taman Jurong CC WEC Facebook

ELDERLY COUPLE TRYING TO FIND SEATS IN MRT, PUBLIC GIVE UP SEATS SO THEY CAN SIT TOGETHER

Facebook user Abby Hew shared on the Singapore Incidents Facebook group, a heartwarming incident that took place inside the MRT at the Mayflower MRT station on 22 June.

An elderly couple had just boarded the train with another elderly man behind her, holding on to a walking stick, and were trying to find seats, as all the seats were taken.

Just then, one man then got up and offered his seat to the elderly woman, before three other men followed suit and gave up their seats to the elderly man as well, so that the elderly couple could sit together.

The netizen thanked the commuters for giving up their seats and making someone’s day.

Here is what she said

22/06/23

Mayflower Station

Humanity at its best..caring passenger at heart

“Worker giving up their seat to elderly members

“elderly woman,man in walking stick looking up for a seat; was seen passing-by few others and earlier before they did not manage get any seat

“finally, at last to the one that stood up for, “and then another two, and follow by the rest, -a little kindness that make one person day! “offering a seat to a person that who needed the most and

“worker giving up their seat to elderly members

-Tyvm to whoever you are, make someone day!”

Netizens’ comments

  1. Often I hear many Singaporeans criticising foreign workers. Year I’d seen in many occasions that the blue collar foreign workers gave up their seats to the needy in trains and buses.
    Yet, many Singaporeans either pretend to be sleeping or ignorance or even claim their rights of the seat as they’d paid the fare.
    Many Singaporeans who are those mention ought to be ashamed and you’re a disgrace to Singapore.
  2. Sad to note that many youths are apathetic towards elderly.
    Is this the consequence of living in an affluent society .
    We become mindless of what’s happening & become indifferent to those who are physically challenged.
    Singapore has one of the highest % of elderly in Asia, close to that of Japan.
    The ability of older people to stand steadily in a moving train can be trying.
    Should they have a fall, it can be catastrophic.
    Under such circumstances, a bit of humanitarian effort would go a long way.
    Perhaps the education system can help instill this awareness from a young age in schools….to care for the elderly, disabled and people with physical challenges.
    Let’s help to make the lives of seniors a bit more comfortable, with a bit of effort.

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Source: Abby Hew on Singapore Incidents Facebook

SMRT APOLOGISES FOR YET ANOTHER MRT BREAKDOWN ALONG CIRCLE LINE, “SIGNAL FAULT”

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MRT services on the Circle Line faced two disruptions on 23 June, with SMRT citing a signalling system fault between the Paya Lebar and Dhoby Gaut/Marina Bay stations.

Services went back to normal at about 9.10am before breaking down again at 10pm.

SMRT’s statement on Facebook

[UPDATE on the signalling system fault on the Circle Line]: Kindly refer to our post on 25 June, 12.20pm

[UPDATE on the signalling system fault on the Circle Line, 24 June, at 11.10am]:

On the evening of Friday, 23 June, train services on the Circle Line were affected due to a signalling system fault. The fault was traced to a faulty Automatic Train Control (ATC) Channel card. After replacement of the particular card, the system was able to start up successfully, and train services progressively resumed.

About an hour later, the fault recurred. Three sets of ATC Channel cards from ALSTOM were then used to recover the ATC, but the fault persisted. SMRT, LTA and ALSTOM engineers were on site, and worked through the night to diagnose the failure of the ATC. They were subsequently able to successfully isolate the faulty cards and recover the ATC before the start of this morning’s passenger service.

All downloaded ATC logs and faulty components will be sent to ALSTOM France for further investigations.

SMRT will continue to work closely with LTA, and ALSTOM to monitor the performance of the newly replaced ATC cards for smooth passenger journeys.

We apologise to all affected commuters and thank them for their patience and understanding.

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[UPDATE Circle Line, 24 June, at 1.18am]:

Train services on Circle Line have ended for the day.

SMRT, LTA and Alstom engineers are still on site and will be working through the night to examine the failure of signalling cards and rectify them.

We will update again in the morning on train services along the mentioned stretches.

We are sorry to all commuters who were affected this evening.

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[UPDATE Circle Line, 23 June, at 10.42pm]:

On 23 June at about 8.40pm, a signalling system fault occurred between Marina Bay/Dhoby Ghaut and Paya Lebar stations due to a signalling card failure. Service resumed at about 9.10pm but the fault reoccurred at 10pm. Our engineers are on site to investigate and rectify the fault.

In-train and station announcements are made, and commuters are also advised to cater additional travelling time of up to 30 minutes or take alternative modes of transport. Free regular bus and bridging bus services are available.

We are sorry to have affected your Friday evening commute.

PRC MAN STRANGLED & THREATENED TO KILL LANDLADY BECAUSE WIFI SLOW @ BENDEMEER

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A 30-year-old PRC male tenant living in a rented unit at Bendemeer got so frustrated with the slow WiFi network connection that he strangled and threatened to kill his 61-year-old landlady.

He was arrested on 17 May and had been in remand since 18 May, and he pleaded guilty on 21 June to four charges that includes use of criminal force, strangling, causing alarm and threatening to kill the landlady.

He was then sentenced to 5 months imprisonment for his offences.

The incident took place on 16 May 2023 in a Bendemeer HDB unit, where the tenant, a 30-year-old Chinese national named Li Xin, resided.

On that evening, Li Xin, engrossed in a mobile game after consuming six cans of beer, experienced the frustration of slow WiFi. This led him to confront his 61-year-old landlady, who happened to be present in the unit at the time.

Li Xin then retrieved a knife with a 14cm blade that he had concealed in the back of his shorts. With the knife in hand, he forcefully dragged his landlady into his room and slammed her onto the bed.

Amidst the escalating tension, Li Xin kept the knife within reach, tucking it back into his shorts. However, he soon managed to calm down and released his grip on his landlady.

Subsequently, he received a call from another tenant of the unit, who had been waiting below the building for two hours. The landlady overheard Li Xin telling the tenant that he had intentions to harm her and her family.

Upon the return of the male tenant, the landlady informed him about her dispute with Li Xin, subtly hinting at the knife hidden in his shorts.

Li Xin’s anger surged when he noticed her gesture, prompting him to charge at her. He proceeded to strangle her, relentlessly maintaining his hold on her neck.

It was only thanks to the intervention of the male tenant that Li Xin was eventually pulled away.

Following the violent incident, the landlady sought refuge in the room of a female tenant who had returned home during the commotion.

Locked safely behind the door, she escaped Li Xin’s pursuit. Sensing the urgency of the situation, the female tenant’s employer promptly alerted the police.

Li Xin was subsequently arrested on May 17, 2023.

During the court proceedings, which took place on June 21, Li Xin pleaded guilty to the charges of strangling and threatening to kill his landlady.

Notably, he was unrepresented and requested leniency, claiming ignorance of Singapore’s laws despite having worked in the country for over a decade.

The prosecutor emphasized the unprovoked and sustained nature of the attack. The judge acknowledged the significance of the male tenant’s intervention, highlighting that Li Xin might not have ceased his assault had the intervention not taken place.

Consequently, the judge agreed with the prosecutor’s recommendation and sentenced Li Xin to five months’ imprisonment.

SCAMMER POSES AS S’PORE POOLS STAFF, SELLS “SURE WIN” 4D NUMBERS ON FB

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A scammer on Facebook is reportedly selling “sure win” 4D numbers online while posing as an employee of Singapore Pools.

The scam has since caught the attention of Singapore Pools, who have lodged a police report against the Facebook ad.

A netizen who came across the advertisement on Facebook, 53-year-old Mr Hu, told Shin Min Daily News that he saw the ad and sent a message on 19 June to the Facebook profile responsible.

To Mr Hu’s surprise, the person who replied to his message claimed to be an employee of Singapore Pools, the authorized lottery operator in Singapore.

The scammer went further by providing Mr Hu with a price list for the “sure win” 4D numbers. The rates differed based on the prize category, with the first prize priced at S$1,350, the second prize at S$850, and the third prize at S$350.

As Mr Hu became increasingly suspicious, he requested proof of the scammer’s identity as a Singapore Pools employee.

However, the scammer tried to evade the issue by providing excuses for not speaking over the phone or meeting in person. These evasive tactics raised red flags for Mr Hu, leading him to doubt the legitimacy of the offer.

With suspicions mounting, Mr Hu refrained from sending any money to the scammer. Instead, he chose to share his experience with the media, hoping to raise awareness and prevent others from falling victim to this fraudulent scheme.

Upon learning of these deceptive practices, Singapore Pools took swift action. The company acknowledged receiving feedback regarding portals and social media accounts impersonating their employees and offering “sure win” tips.

As a result, Singapore Pools filed a police report against these websites and accounts, seeking to put an end to their illicit activities.

They have also reached out to the Facebook page behind the deceitful ads and requested that they take down the posts.

33 Y.O MALE DRIVER KILLED @ PIE AFTER CAR WENT AIRBORNE, FLIPPED OVER REPEATEDLY

In a devastating incident that took place on Friday night, a 33-year-old male driver lost his life in a fatal accident on the Pan-Island Expressway (PIE).

The incident was captured on video and shared on Singapore Roads Accident’s Facebook page, revealing the immediate aftermath of the collision.

A black car was seen severely damaged and overturned in the leftmost lane of the expressway. The extent of the wreckage indicated the severity of the accident.

Upon arriving at the accident scene, a blue police tent was set up in front of the wrecked vehicle. This tent is commonly used to shield the scene from public view and facilitate investigations.

A separate video shared on SG Road Vigilante’s Facebook page sheds light on the events leading up to the accident.

According to the footage, the black car was reportedly tailgating and attempting to overtake other vehicles before colliding with a light grey car.

The impact of the collision caused the black car to flip multiple times before coming to a rest on its side along the expressway.

Tragically, the 33-year-old male driver of the black car lost his life in the accident. The police were alerted to the incident at 9:01 pm on Friday. When they arrived at the scene, the driver was found motionless. Despite the efforts of an SCDF paramedic, he was pronounced dead on-site.

The driver of the light grey car, also a 33-year-old male, and his 23-year-old female passenger were conscious and transported to the hospital for further medical attention.

At the time of writing, police investigations into the fatal accident are currently underway.

Netizens’ comments

  1. Is it the same car that signal trying to overtake ?
  2. Can I check what car model and plate number?
  3. Is it me or I saw a pair of leg flew out..
  4. This driver deserves it. Endangering other road users too with the lack of driving skills. No one gotten the plate number? Should report this to authorities and ban this driver.
    • No need to report and ban the driver, he already report to heaven liao.

TAIWAN MAN DRESSES UP LIKE A WOMAN TO FILM OTHER WOMEN IN THE TOILET

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In a shocking incident that has sent shockwaves through Taiwan, a man was apprehended for disguising himself as a woman to film unsuspecting females in public restrooms. The perpetrator’s reprehensible actions were captured on video during the arrest, further highlighting the severity of the offense.

Video of incident:

The incident unfolded recently in Taiwan. Authorities received multiple complaints from women who noticed suspicious behavior in the restrooms. Witnesses reported seeing a person dressed in women’s clothing, loitering around the facilities and acting in a covert manner.

Concerned by these reports, security personnel at the complex were alerted and immediately launched an investigation. They discreetly monitored the situation and discovered the suspect repeatedly entering different women’s restrooms while dressed as a female. The security team quickly sprang into action and apprehended the individual in the act.

The arrest, captured on video by a vigilant bystander, shows the authorities confronting the man, revealing his true identity. The footage clearly documents the shock and disbelief of both the officers and the suspect. The local police were swift in their response, ensuring that the accused was taken into custody without further incident.

Law enforcement officials have since identified the suspect’s name. The police investigation revealed that he had been engaging in this illicit activity for an extended period, possibly targeting multiple locations throughout the city. Authorities are urging potential victims to come forward and assist in the ongoing investigation.

The incident has sparked outrage and concern among the Taiwanese community, particularly regarding the violation of privacy and security within public spaces. Local advocacy groups have condemned such abhorrent behavior, emphasizing the importance of ensuring the safety and well-being of individuals in all public facilities.

The suspect is expected to face legal consequences for his actions, including charges related to invasion of privacy, harassment, and potential distribution of illicit material. If found guilty, he could face severe penalties under Taiwanese law.

SOME LOCAL GRADS ALLEGEDLY LIED ABOUT OFFERS TO GET HIGHER PAYING JOBS

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A netizen shared about how some of her friends have been lying about their counteroffers from high-paying companies to get higher-paying jobs.

Here is the story:

“Recently I have a few friends applying to Shopee for full time job, and they have went to the extent of lying about their counter offers from high paying companies (ByteDance, Tiktok, OGP… etc).

They got the information and data from a spreadsheet that is shared in the Project Intern telegram group, hence the offers that they claimed to have are compelling enough to fool the Shopee HRs, and the HR themselves does not do any validation on their side.

I feel uneased knowing that they have lied their way in achieving higher salary (higher base salary, with stocks – RSUs), yet on the other hand I do feel the urge to try it as well as I am low balled by Shopee.

It is obviously wrong and unacceptable to do so, and I shall continue trying my best to get a better competing offer.”

Editor’s note: You’re going to get fired straight away if they find out, don’t do it.