My wife, a Vietnamese bu, had just struck the first prize in 4d some time ago. It was some number that she dreamt off and she even took $200 from me to buy it, 100 big and 100 small.

When the results were released, she screamed at the top of her lungs and was so happy because the amount which she bet won us $500,000.

Thought that our lives had changed for the better but she treated me like a servant instead

I too, was so happy for her because I had worked hard to provide for us. Now, I thought, our luck had finally changed.

Little did I know, however, that my wife’s newfound wealth would be the beginning of the end. As soon as the money came in, my wife changed. She became cold and distant, and began treating me like a servant.

I was no longer the man she had married and cherished – I was now an object to be used.

At first, I tried to ignore her behavior. I thought that maybe she was just overwhelmed by the sudden influx of money and would come back to her old self soon.

But it only got worse. She began to berate me and insult me, and she demanded that I obey her every command. I was no longer allowed to make decisions for myself or to have any sort of opinion. I was her personal slave.

My life soon became a living nightmare. I was forced to do all of the household chores, and she made sure to keep me in line by punishing me whenever I did something wrong.

She also began to spend money recklessly, buying things that we didn’t need and going on extravagant vacations.

As the time went by, I became increasingly resentful of my wife and her wealth. I felt like she had taken away my freedom and my dignity.

I was no longer the man I used to be – I was nothing more than a servant in my own home.

Suspect she has an affair in Vietnam

She even ran back to Vietnam whenever she wanted for weeks to a month without informing me every time she does something like that.

I suspect that she is having an affair back home but I have no proof and can only lan lan because she’s the one with the money now.

It all started during the WFH phase. I worked from home for more than a year and got so used to it that when the company I work for announced that we had to come back to the office, I just couldn’t bring myself to do it.

I have worked from home for the past year and it has been a great experience. I save so much time and money by not having to travel to the office, and I can spend more time with my family and friends. Plus, I don’t have to deal with the stress of the office environment.

I’ve been so used to the freedom and flexibility of working from home that I just couldn’t bring myself to go back to the office. I understand that it’s necessary to get back to normal, but I just couldn’t make the transition.

One of the major reasons why I refuse to work in the office is because of the cost. Taking the train to and from the office can be expensive and time-consuming. I would have to pay for a monthly pass and it would add an extra cost to my budget. Not to mention the time I would have to spend on the train, which could be used for something else.

I also cook at home, more healthy and cheaper compared to all the crazy mixed vege stalls out there.

I also don’t want to deal with the stress of the office environment. Working in the office can be very stressful, especially if you’re not used to it. There are so many distractions and it can be hard to focus on your tasks. Plus, there’s the pressure of having to dress up and put on a professional face for the office.

I understand that there are some benefits of working in the office, such as having access to resources and being able to collaborate with colleagues. But I think that the cons outweigh the pros in this case.

I believe that working from home is the way of the future, and I don’t think I’ll ever go back to the office. I’ve become so used to the flexibility and freedom of working from home that I just can’t bring myself to go back to the office. I’m sure I’m not the only one who feels this way, and I think more and more people are going to start working from home in the future.

I’m grateful that my company has been so understanding and has allowed me to work from home. I’m sure they would prefer me to go back to the office, but they’ve been willing to accommodate my needs. I’m thankful that I have the freedom to work from home, and I’m sure I’ll be sticking with it for the foreseeable future.

We’ve all heard the saying, “Love is blind,” and I’m sure most of us have experienced it firsthand. Unfortunately, for me, I realized this too late.

When I first started dating my girlfriend, she was the most romantic, attentive, and generous person ever. She would always surprise me with thoughtful gifts and sweet gestures, and I truly felt like the luckiest guy in the world.

However, as our relationship progressed, I slowly started to notice a change in her behaviour. She became increasingly lazy and cheap, always expecting me to do the majority of the work and pick up the tab. I thought that maybe she was just going through a difficult time, so I kept quiet and continued to do what she asked.

Little did I know that it was only the beginning. Her laziness and cheapness quickly escalated, and soon enough I was doing everything for her. I would make all the plans, pick up her food, and even book her doctor’s appointments. It was like I was her personal assistant, and I was getting exhausted.

4 min walk also need book Grab ride?

But then came the final straw. One day, I asked her to accompany me to the store, which was only a 4-minute walk from our house. She flat out refused and told me to go by myself. I was so shocked that I couldn’t even respond. It was obvious that she was too lazy and cheap to make the short walk, so she expected me to book Grab for her.

That was the moment I realized that I was in an unhealthy relationship. I was tired of doing all the work and shouldering all the responsibility. I finally realized that I deserved better, and I decided to end things with her.

It’s been a few months since then, and I’m finally learning to appreciate the beauty of a healthy relationship. I’m no longer in a situation where my partner expects me to do all the work and foot all the bills.

I finally found a better person and it turns out to be one of her friends. She was furious but who cares… She treat me like dirt there is no reason for me to think or consider much about her feelings when she did the same to me.

I’ve been friends with my group of buddies since poly.

We’ve been through thick and thin over the years, and I always thought we would remain friends forever. But lately, I’ve noticed that every time I hear from them, it’s because they need something.

Whether it’s money, advice, a place to crash, or a ride somewhere, it always seems like they’re looking for something from me. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t mind helping out a friend in need, but it’s starting to become a bit much. All I hear from them these days is, “Hey, can you do this for me?” or “Can you lend me some money?”

I feel like I’m being taken advantage of, like I’m some sort of resource for my friends to dip into whenever they need something. What happened to the days when we used to hang out just for fun? When did it become all about what I can do for them?

I understand that sometimes people need help, and I don’t want to be a heartless jerk who can’t lend a helping hand. But I also don’t want to be taken advantage of. It’s exhausting having to constantly be there for my friends, only to have them disappear again when their need is met.

I’m starting to resent the fact that the only time I hear from them is when they need something. I’m sick of being taken for granted and used for my resources. I want to be appreciated and respected, not used as a doormat.

I’m starting to think about cutting ties with my friends, at least for a while. If they don’t value me enough to reach out just to say hello, then why should I stay in their lives?

I want to be friends with people who appreciate me and want to be in my life, not just use me for what I can do for them.

It’s hard to separate my emotions from the situation. I still care about my friends, but I’m starting to resent them too. I feel like I’m being taken for granted, and it’s beginning to take a toll on my mental health.

I don’t want to be taken advantage of anymore. I want to be appreciated and respected, not used as a resource. I want to be friends with people who genuinely care about me, not just those who need something from me.

It’s time for me to take a stand and put myself first.

I was scrolling through my dating app, hoping to find someone that might be a good match for me. After a few swipes, I came across a woman who seemed to be a good fit.

I was looking forward to meeting her in person, but that never happened.

When I asked her if she was available for a date, she said that she was too busy and that she would prefer to meet me online. I was a bit hesitant, but I agreed, thinking that maybe I could get to know her better and that it could potentially lead to an in-person date.

Little did I know that she would be using a beauty cam to make herself look more attractive. I noticed it right away—her skin was flawless, her eyes were wide and sparkly, and her lips were perfectly shaped. I was taken aback by how different she looked online than she did in her profile pictures.

At first, I was a bit offended.

I felt like she was trying to deceive me and that she was ashamed of her true self. But then I realized that she was just like many other people out there—she wanted to look her best and make a good impression.

After a few minutes of conversation, I asked her if she was using a beauty cam. She hesitated for a moment before finally admitting that she was. She said that she was tired of meeting people online and going out on dates only to find out that they weren’t interested in her because of how she looked.

I felt a bit sorry for her, but at the same time, I was also getting a bit sick of it. I had been using dating apps for a while and I was getting increasingly frustrated with all the people who were using beauty cams to make themselves look better than they actually were. It felt like a game of cat and mouse, and I was getting tired of playing it.

Pig face creature – Zhu Ba Jie

I had gone to the restaurant, expecting to meet a beautiful woman, only to find out that she was actually a pig-faced creature. I was so embarrassed that I almost ran out of the restaurant.

That experience really made me realize how sick I was of people using beauty cams to make themselves look better than they actually were.

I wanted to meet someone who was genuinely interested in me for who I was, not for how I looked.

I was in a relationship with my girlfriend for over a year, and it was one of the most intense relationships I had ever been in. We had a strong connection and were always honest with each other. We had a mutual understanding of respect, and I treated her like she was the most important person in my life.

Possessive

But last month, things started to change. Out of nowhere, she started to become more possessive and jealous of me, and she would constantly ask me if I was seeing someone else.

She even started to check my phone when I wasn’t around and would ask me questions about who I was talking to and who I was texting.

At first, I tried to explain to her that I wasn’t seeing anyone else and that I was faithful to her. But she didn’t believe me and kept checking my phone. Finally, after weeks of her checking my phone, I had enough and I told her that if she ever checked my phone again, I would cheat on her on purpose.

I know what I said was wrong, and I regret it. But I was so frustrated and angry at her possessive behavior that I lashed out and said something that I didn’t mean. I know that cheating on purpose would have been a terrible thing to do, and I would never actually do it.

But my girlfriend didn’t believe me and she broke up with me the next day.

We haven’t spoken since then, and I feel terrible about the whole situation. I miss her so much and wish I had handled things differently.

I now realize that trust is something that needs to be earned, not assumed.

If I had been more understanding and patient with her, then maybe she wouldn’t have been so possessive and jealous. I also should have been more transparent with her about my activities and communication with other people.

If I could do it all over again, I would never threaten to cheat on her.

I know that it is too late to apologize, but I want her to know that I am truly sorry.

I have been married to my wife for over a decade, and I am starting to believe that she is a tigress.

I don’t mean this in the romantic way, but in the literal sense. I feel like I need a drink of beer just to cope with her on a daily basis.

My wife has always been a strong-willed woman, and I have loved her for it. She is independent, intelligent, and beautiful. But lately, I feel like I am walking on eggshells around her. She is always so angry and demanding, and I feel like I can never do anything right. It’s getting to the point that I feel like I need a beer just to forget how hard it is to be married to her.

I know that it’s not healthy to use alcohol to cope with my problems, but I can’t help it. I feel like I need a beer just to get through the day. I don’t want to argue with her, so I just try to stay out of her way. But this only seems to make her angrier. I know she loves me, but it’s like she’s a completely different person when she gets mad.

It’s reached the point where I just want to go out and drink. I know it’s not the healthiest solution, but I feel like it’s the only way I can cope with my tigress wife. I know I should be trying to talk to her and work things out, but the thought of having to deal with her wrath is just too much for me.

I’m sure some people would say I’m being a coward for not trying to work things out, but I honestly feel like I need a beer just to get through the day. It’s like I can temporarily forget how bad things are and just relax and enjoy myself for a few hours.

I know I need to make a change, but for now, I’m just going to keep drinking. I’m not proud of it, but it’s the only thing that helps me cope. I know things can’t stay like this forever, but for now, beer is my best friend.

I just found out that my girlfriend had secretly unlocked my phone when I was asleep and deleted all my female contacts.

I was furious!

Even my cousins and colleagues who I needed to contact for work! I had no idea why she would do something like this and she refused to give me a reasonable explanation.

At first, I thought she was just jealous and wanted to make sure I wasn’t talking to any other women. I’m sure she had her reasons, but it was still wrong of her to do that without my permission. I couldn’t believe she would do something like this to me. I had never given her any reason to think I was cheating on her or anything like that.

I confronted her about it and asked her why she had done it. She said she was just trying to protect me from myself. She said she was worried I would get myself into trouble by talking to other women. I was so angry that I couldn’t even respond. I was completely taken aback by her reasoning.

What The hell is she talking about? Protect me from myself?!

She apologized and said she was sorry for what she had done. She said she would never do it again and promised to never go through my phone without my permission. I was still mad but I decided to let it go and forgive her.

I was so angry and disappointed with her for a few days, but eventually, things got back to normal. I decided to trust her again and not worry about it too much.

I had to spend over 2 weeks to get back all the contacts.

About a month later, She tried to unlock my phone when I was asleep and I caught her red handed!!!

This it it!

I slap my phone out of her hand and chased her out of the house!!

It was my first year in university and I had just started a new relationship with my then-boyfriend. We were so in love and I felt like nothing could break us apart. That all changed one day when he told me that he had to go for his National Service (NS) reservist. I was sad that we had to part, but I knew it was something he had to do.

Little did I know that my lack of understanding towards his reservist would be the start of a whole new problem in our relationship. I was clueless as to why he had to stay in for his NS reservist and I thought that it was a waste of his time.

I started to accuse him of going to Geylang to look for other girls instead of staying in for his reservist.

I didn’t understand why he had to stay in for his reservist and I was frustrated with the whole thing. It seemed like he was always away and I was left feeling neglected and lonely. I started to think that he was just using the reservist as an excuse to go out and have fun without me.

My lack of knowledge about the importance of NS reservists and my refusal to accept the fact that he had to stay in for his reservist was the root cause of our arguments.

I was so consumed with my own feelings that I failed to understand or empathise with what he was going through.

My boyfriend would patiently explain to me that NS reservist is an important part of his service and that he had to stay in for it. He would explain to me that it was not only a way for him to hone his skills, but it was also a way for him to bond with his fellow servicemen.

He tried his best to make me understand, but I was still adamant that he was going out to look for other girls instead of staying in for his reservist.

I was so consumed with my own feelings that I failed to see the bigger picture.

He send a photo of him sleeping in the army bunk and said that he is breaking up with me and calls me a nuisance before blocking me…

I want him back but even my friends are calling me toxic… I need help.